tsquadron Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 ok i have been with my girl for just under two years now. Things have been up and down now and again. She is in the middle of making an album and today was the a video shoot for one of the songs. The video is about boyfriend girlfriend hanging out and having fun together. So the boyfriend was hired. At the end of the shoot he come up and ask for her phone number so she gives it to him. She has never meet him or needs to meet him again. So i think its a little odd and get a little piss off. So tell me Am i in the wrong or is she.
Jersey Shortie Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 It's one thing to be flattered and flirt a little. But I personally think taking a number is wrong. First to you and second to the guy that she is leading on. I think she was in the wrong here. Did you two fight about it?
Island Girl Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Yes she was in the wrong. Yes it is something to be concerned about. It was disrespectful to you and your relationship. And it shows there may be some things going on right now with her that she may be questioning the relationship or you as her permanent partner. You best bet is not to fight about it but try to have a rational discussion and find out why she sees no problem with doing what she did and why she did it in the first place. Good luck with the conversation.
Untouchable_Fire Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Maybe you should find a GF who cares about you. This one sure doesn't
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Yup yup. Even after 2 years if my shorty was handing out her number to a guy I'd dead that relationship and hit the club up that same night.
St. Nick Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Maaaaaan, her giving her number like that, right in front of you, is a bad sign. That chick is scandalous and has low respect for you. I mean, right in front of her boyfriend. Damn.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Maaaaaan, her giving her number like that, right in front of you, is a bad sign. That chick is scandalous and has low respect for you. I mean, right in front of her boyfriend. Damn. You feel me? I would've bagged a chick right infront of her then dropped that chick like a hot potato and take the new one out for some get-to-knowin.
Lucky_One Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Does he want to make sure that she knows how to get in touch with him in case she does another video, and he doesn't want to just trust that the manager in charge of hiring will call him back? I gave Ty Pennington my phone number because he liked my work on faux painting when I was volunteering on a house; it didn't mean I wanted to jump his bones, and my BF didn't have a kitten, either.
MichiganMan222 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 So when you fought, what was her angle? Did she argue it was for professional reasons only?
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 So when you fought, what was her angle? Did she argue it was for professional reasons only? Even if it wasn't she'd lie and say it was to cover her smut ass.
mom07 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 She is in the wrong. For her to do that in front of you is so disrespectful. It sounds like she wants things to end between ya'll but she doesn't want to do it. Have you talked to her about it? Also you have been with her for two years has she brought up about getting married and you are just not ready to settle down yet? If she has maybe she is considering on moving on.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 And where in the OP's post does it say anything about her having a "smut ass":rolleyes:? And where do you see anything he posts about her having a history of lying? Just because you are involved with a ho who won't post your pictures at her workplace so that she can continue to flirt heavily with her young virile co-workers and then goes to sleep before you have orgasms during sex doesn't mean that everyone else is. It might help to keep your totally unfounded and judgemental comments for your own screwed up relationship, unless they truly have something to with the OP's question. If it wasn't for professional purposes she'd lie about it. And trust, I wouldn't wife up a ho. And she's got a couple pictures of me up in her cubicle. Any other personal attacks you'd like contribute? Or would you like to rack up warnings? Let's go son. And just for clarification, a smut is a ho. Ho ass would've been better that being that she did hand duke her number for non-professional purposes. We don't know if she did or not, but if she did she'd lie about it, and it'd make her a ho. Judgement was properly placed if those variables are met.
Lucky_One Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 If it wasn't for professional purposes she'd lie about it. And trust, I wouldn't wife up a ho. And she's got a couple pictures of me up in her cubicle. Any other personal attacks you'd like contribute? Or would you like to rack up warnings? Let's go son. And just for clarification, a smut is a ho. Ho ass would've been better that being that she did hand duke her number for non-professional purposes. We don't know if she did or not, but if she did she'd lie about it, and it'd make her a ho. Judgement was properly placed if those variables are met. You don't seem to understand the word "judgement". You are calling this guy's girlfriend of two years a "smut ass" and a liar. And there is NO indication in his two very brief posts that she is either of those things. Perhaps she is - I have no idea, as I know nothing more about her than the few words he has posted. And I have given you no attacks. YOU posted that she doesn't put pictures of you up in her cubicle since she doesn't want the non-existent girls she works with to see how, ahem, good-looking you are. YOU posted that she flirts with every guy she sees. YOU posted that she laughs at the stupidest thing that any male says, but doesn't laugh at you or think you are intelligent or witty. YOU posted that she falls asleep after she has an orgasm and before you do. I was just re-iterating the facts as you posted.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 You don't seem to understand the word "judgement". You are calling this guy's girlfriend of two years a "smut ass" and a liar. And there is NO indication in his two very brief posts that she is either of those things. Perhaps she is - I have no idea, as I know nothing more about her than the few words he has posted. And I have given you no attacks. YOU posted that she doesn't put pictures of you up in her cubicle since she doesn't want the non-existent girls she works with to see how, ahem, good-looking you are. YOU posted that she flirts with every guy she sees. YOU posted that she laughs at the stupidest thing that any male says, but doesn't laugh at you or think you are intelligent or witty. YOU posted that she falls asleep after she has an orgasm and before you do. I was just re-iterating the facts as you posted. I'm not calling her a liar or a smut, unless those variables in the scenario are met. If she gave homeboy her number for non-professional purposes, then she is a smut. We all don't know why she did. I'm just giving him advice for possible future scenarios. Understand it now? And while they may seem like facts you've skewed them a bit in order to offend me and posted them in a thread that they have no relevance in. Are you attacking me? Yes. You're trying to get me riled up. Its all good though son, you're text on my screen. Let's not get personal because it could get ugly.
Lucky_One Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 No, you did call her a liar and a ho. And please stop calling me "son". You are closer in age to my kid than to me, and he can even tell the difference between a man and a woman.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 For someone with a child you're pretty immature. Exiting this scene. Dueces.
loveslife Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I give out my phone number, email, etc. to people I work with all the time. It's nothing romantic.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 She is in the wrong. For her to do that in front of you is so disrespectful. It sounds like she wants things to end between ya'll but she doesn't want to do it. Have you talked to her about it? Also you have been with her for two years has she brought up about getting married and you are just not ready to settle down yet? If she has maybe she is considering on moving on. There's not enough information disclosed by the OP to determine all of that but it is good advice in regards that the OP disclosed more information about whether or not her number was handed out for non-professional purposes. And I'd agree with you 100%. If she's out there getting new male acquaintances for non-professional purposes it'd be best if the OP ended the relationship. She could be a possible ho/smut/insert whatever word is comfortable for you here.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I give out my phone number, email, etc. to people I work with all the time. It's nothing romantic. With what purposes in mind though love? Are in you in a relationship?
loveslife Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 There's not enough information disclosed by the OP to determine all of that but it is good advice in regards that the OP disclosed more information about whether or not her number was handed out for non-professional purposes. And I'd agree with you 100%. If she's out there getting new male acquaintances for non-professional purposes it'd be best if the OP ended the relationship. She could be a possible ho/smut/insert whatever word is comfortable for you here. Well, there's a difference between non-professional and romantic purposes. In the entertainment industry it's really smart to befriend people, men and women alike. It's all about the relationships. People will choose to work with someone they like. So, making friends with men and women is smart business. And it certainly doesn't make someone a ho.
loveslife Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 With what purposes in mind though love? Are in you in a relationship? Usually it's for work purposes, of course. Occasionally for something personal, not necessarily romantic or sexual. I think there are some men who just don't want their woman to be friends with men, period. I've always enjoyed men as friends though.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Well if its about connections, when it comes to the Entertainment business I'd just say that's business aka professional.
loveslife Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Well if its about connections, when it comes to the Entertainment business I'd just say that's business aka professional. That's my impression given the description by the OP.
era Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 ok i have been with my girl for just under two years now. Things have been up and down now and again. She is in the middle of making an album and today was the a video shoot for one of the songs. The video is about boyfriend girlfriend hanging out and having fun together. So the boyfriend was hired. At the end of the shoot he come up and ask for her phone number so she gives it to him. She has never meet him or needs to meet him again. So i think its a little odd and get a little piss off. So tell me Am i in the wrong or is she. She was at her job. The exchange of tel#'s was likely for professional reasons. She had nothing to hide. Networking is vital in that industry.
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