waste of 6 years??

[transamkid86]

ok hea is my story...shortest way i can... im 20 years old and she(myex) is 19 we been goin out for 6 years now and she dump me last september well she met sum1 else that i know and she was talkin to me kinda keepin me close and what not then went out all dec. and then her dumped her so she runs back to me and me loveing her so much belived her when she said it was ova with him and she didnt know what she saw in him well him is my cuz by marige.. well she said we work on things cause after all it was 6 years so we trryed and she tells me "its not workin out" but she didnt even try well they start talkin again he he dumps her so me bein so stupid and me being so much in love with her let down my ways again then she was tellin me stuff like she doesnt know if she wants to take em back and stuff like that cause i have hurt her in the past but to cut this shorter she tells me that she cant even be friends any more cause its "less stress" on her so im so hurt ovaa it that she can just throw me and our 6 years away after so long all becasue of "him". i tell myself it will get better that if she really loved me like she said she did how can she do this to me? but so far it hasnt gotten better it seems like each day gets worse and she doesnt even want to befriends? i was goin to marry her and we had plans and it kills me to see her with some1 else but what do u guys think i should do??? should i wait it out and try to be friends or just leave it at that????

 

 

 

sorry its long but that is thre shortest i can get it lol

[Chrome Barracuda]

Well she already thought the grass was greener and it wasnt then she ran back to you when he dropped her, why did you take her back? Your still young, you need to mature and find a good woman who isnt gonna leave because you aint a baller or thug.

[nycmikey]

I know exactly what u are going through,I was 17 when i first had a real relationship.After 3 yrs she dumped me and hooked up with my best friend,to say the least i was floored and at that time didnt realize the opportunities that were out there,After a good 6 months i did get over her and from 21 to 25 i can honestly say those were the best yrs of my life.Go make friends hang out and chase girls u have so much time,I am 32 now and my gf just dumped me after 6 yrs now I really feel devastated,so I know what u r going through.The difference with u and me is ur much younger and have so so much time to hook up with anouther girl.I know so many guys that got married at your age or 21,22 and are miserable now,so this really is a blessing in disguise for you.Always remember u gotta come first U took her back I did that with the one that just broke up with me but now we gotta bring are heads up get out there.Your girlfriend has put you through alot and to keep going back and forth like this is not fair to u,no matter how she trys to justify it.So go meet anouther girl and u will be over her in no time.Good luck

[transamkid86]

thx for the advice and this site is really makein me feel a little better knowin im not the only 1 that feels like this.....cause when ur sad u feel alone...