Confuse Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 [FONT=Segoe UI]There is this guy that everyone knows he likes me. He teases me most of the time and humiliated me a lot in front of public and everyone around me said that he was just trying to get my attention. Anyway, I confronted him about his rude behaviours and now he started to spread rumors about me saying I am mean. [/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI] [/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI]By the way, I wasn’t harsh when I confronted him. I have never confronted anyone before and that was the first time. I just told him the truth that I don’t appreciate the way that he treats me. I wasn’t even rude to him when I talked to him. I am shocked that he starts spreading rumour that I am mean just because I have confronted him.[/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI] [/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI]He doesn’t come and harass me after the confrontation and it is so awkward when we walk pass each other. I feel very uncomfortable especially we will see each other every day. My friends told me that he is immature and not good at expressing himself, they all said that the reason that he was [FONT=Times New Roman]teasing me a lot was because he thought that by doing so could win a girl’s heart not knowing it pushes girl away.[/FONT][/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI] [/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI]Have I done anything wrong by confronting him? with my personality, I don’t like to hold grudges and I hate this "awkwardness" that I have to face every day. When he started to spreads untrue rumour about me, I feel like he is putting the blame on me. Whose fault is it that things turned out this way? Is it not right to tell him that what he did to me was rude and disrespectful? Why does he have to spread untrue rumours about me? that hurts me even more… [/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI] [/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI]Would a guy teases a girl when he is fond of her? why? shouldn’t he be caring rather than being rude to you and try to grab attention?[/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI] [/FONT] [FONT=Segoe UI]I did some some advices to ease my mind and my confusion.[/FONT]
St. Nick Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I'm the only guy who is willing to take the time to read through all the garbled font, huh? Oh well. Anyway, don't worry about it. This dude is immature and you only feel bad that you hurt his feelings. You can't go through life without hurting other people's feelings. Let it drop. He's stopped teasing you and that's a good thing. Unless you have feelings for him there's no reason to talk to him unless it is necessary.
385 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Wow, your like the first girl I've ever met that does NOT like to be teased. I don't know, I tease the girls I like and they like it.
Recommended Posts