zanner88 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I have been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months now and things are great and I am very attracted to her. In my early 20's; this is my first real relationship I've ever had. She has been in several relationships prior to, including one very serious. She has a lot of dating experience and knows exactly what she wants and wants to take steps to making our relationship serious. I on the other hand am very attracted to her and I really want to stay with her, but I'm not sure if I'm ready for a serious relationship just because there's always what else is out there. She sees this and does not want to continue the relationship because she feels like she will not put in any more emotions into the relationship because she feels that she would be hurt eventually now or later with me leaving to find out what else is out there. She feels that we should take a break and have me see other people so I can get all of the other girls out of the way and actually realize what I do and don't want. But I do not want to leave, I like exactly where we are but she feels that she will eventually get hurt. I'm not sure what to do, if I should go on or if I should get serious with her, please help.
nothappyjan Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I am in the same situation where the guy doesnt feel ready after 3months to get serious and I feel like your girlfriend, worried and anxious and like I am going to get hurt. I just feel that if a guy is really into me, he will want to get serious and I dont want to waste my time and emotions on a guy who isnt that into me and might leave and run off with a better offer any day. Its not fair to the girl. Ask yourself do you honestly like her or are you wasting time with her waiting for someone else cause if u are its not fair to string the girl along.
Author zanner88 Posted March 26, 2009 Author Posted March 26, 2009 I do like her and care for her a lot, it's just a very scary thought going into something like that no knowing what's ahead especially if it's your first time. By no means am I trying to waste her time but getting serious is something very big.
BobSacamento Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I really don't think 3 months is a very long time. Does she want to get serious in order to get better gifts?
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