cdbs24 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 me and my girlfriend broke up after a year and im having sucha hard time dealing with it... Ive had other girlfiends in the past and none have been this hard to get over... i guess its because im in love with her really bad and i cant seem to let her go... ne advice im a wreck
Rose81 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 It's natural to feel that way. You didn't give many details but you are not alone. Breaking up is really hard. I think the fact that it is difficult for you and past break ups weren't shows that you have grown as a person. Just silence your mind and imagine a life where she is irrelevant. Imagine how it will feel when you no longer miss her. That time will come.
Beautiful Inside Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 me and my girlfriend broke up after a year and im having sucha hard time dealing with it... Ive had other girlfiends in the past and none have been this hard to get over... i guess its because im in love with her really bad and i cant seem to let her go... ne advice im a wreck you guys might get back together? or is it that feeling like she wont talk to you she hates you etc?... a lot of couples get in fights/arguments and say hurtful and mean things they really dont mean just out of anger or hurt and all im saying is maybe after a few days or time apart you guys could possibly get back together?...
Author cdbs24 Posted March 26, 2009 Author Posted March 26, 2009 she talks to me but its nt the same and all i want is for everythng to go back to the way it was... I just wana call her and tell her tht i love her and just ask her how her day is goin.. but i cant becuz i kno tht im never gona get over her.. i asked her last night on the phone either you want me again or nt and i was hopeing shed say i want u but she didnt.. she tells me she loves me but im nt too sure??
messed-mind Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 What happened exactly? Did it fizzle out, or did you have a bust up over something? Was there a trust problem? Did you grow apart? Open up some more about things, it might make you start to see what was wrong and what lead to the break-up.
imu2 Posted March 27, 2009 Posted March 27, 2009 Unfortunately & often when someone says they love you but dont want to be with you then its a up-hill battle to get them back. Here you can either take the crushing blow early and go NC until you are recovered or be a battler by enduring more pain so that you may potentially reconnect with her through your hard efforts and genuine feelings. 50/50
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