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I agree with you to be honest. But even if I didn't I wouldn't shame you for your words, that's your preference. So why are you in this thread again? Do you get something out of seeing a female naked? Do you have male genitalia? And no, the amount you've had inside of you doesn't count.

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I agree with you to be honest. But even if I didn't I wouldn't shame you for your words, that's your preference. So why are you in this thread again? Do you get something out of seeing a female naked? Do you have male genitalia? And no, the amount you've had inside of you doesn't count.

 

 

Oh.. just because it's a thread about women.. women are not allowed to post... pllleeeassse.. give me a break.. :laugh:

 

I enjoy looking at a beautiful naked female body.. yes.. but I'm straight as a pin..

 

Like you said, the only male genitalia I had were inside me.. in and out.. :laugh:

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Rofl...you know...I'd take you serious if you were 30 years younger and in the two digit number limit of male partners. Exiting this scene to. Deuces.

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Well, anyone that has hit puberty has cellulite, so if you are guy that's really turned off by it or "tolerate" it, I don't know what to tell you. Date other men.

 

I think this is a really honest reflection about the way the media has colored the standards or what a woman is suppose to look like. Those pictures of the stars and models shown are women that work out regularly and they still had cellulite. All those pictures of women in Maxim, news flash: airbrushed. I wish men could accept us for who we are, within reason if we maintain ourselves and take care of oursselves. But even that isn't enough. I just wonder what exactly is enough for men.

 

I also think that as a woman, it just seems you can't really win with guys. I mean, if a guy is looking for everything his girlfriend isn't, that's a pretty bleek turn out. It's better to be the fantasy then the real girl on his arm if that's the case.

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Well, anyone that has hit puberty has cellulite, so if you are guy that's really turned off by it or "tolerate" it

 

Well some don't have cellulite, though many do.

 

I think this is a really honest reflection about the way the media has colored the standards or what a woman is suppose to look like. Those pictures of the stars and models shown are women that work out regularly and they still had cellulite. All those pictures of women in Maxim, news flash: airbrushed. I wish men could accept us for who we are, within reason if we maintain ourselves and take care of oursselves. But even that isn't enough. I just wonder what exactly is enough for men.

Given how many people I see in relationships, I'd say it's not too much.

 

I also think that as a woman, it just seems you can't really win with guys. I mean, if a guy is looking for everything his girlfriend isn't, that's a pretty bleek turn out. It's better to be the fantasy then the real girl on his arm if that's the case.
Everything with you is always about how no woman is good enough for any man. I got news for you. 1. Plenty of men and women (who aren't perfect looking) are in relationships. 2. Stop complaining so much about men. If you're decent looking, you're enough for most men. If you complain about men, then you're not going to be good enough. Your negative attitude will surely do you in.
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Well, anyone that has hit puberty has cellulite

 

 

No..no.. no.. I completely disagree.. I never ever had cellulite when I was younger.. I only started about 2 years ago.. and it's not much.

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Well some obviously are going to have it more then others. I have no doubt of that Lizzie. And diet and exercise can help or hurt if you don't do it. But this doesn't make these statements any less true:

 

 

Cellulite describes a condition that occurs in men and women (although much more common in women) where the skin of the lower limbs, abdomen, and pelvic region becomes dimpled after puberty.

 

It is normal for pubescent females to display some degree of cellulite. There appears to be a hormonal component to its presentation.

 

Hormones play a dominant role in the formation of cellulite.

 

90% of post-adolescent women go on to develop cellulite at some time during their life although it is very hardly ever seen in men. The thighs, buttocks and the abdomen are the most common areas for a woman to develop cellulite. Although it is often mistaken for obesity, cellulite is not actually obesity related because it can also take place in thin lean women.

 

1. Plenty of men and women (who aren't perfect looking) are in relationships.

 

Tru, but men are always looking at other women and assesing them, even while in relationships.

 

2. Stop complaining so much about men. If you're decent looking, you're enough for most men. If you complain about men, then you're not going to be good enough. Your negative attitude will surely do you in.

 

Well, I am trying to be realistic about the nature of what men are like the living deluded that men are going to be gracious and happy with what you give them.

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Tru, but men are always looking at other women and assesing them, even while in relationships.

 

That's your opinion.

 

Well, I am trying to be realistic about the nature of what men are like the living deluded that men are going to be gracious and happy with what you give them.
I don't understand this statement. If you're getting at that men are deluded, then fine, your perception is your reality. Go date women or don't date at all. You're obviously not being productive in terms of seeking out solutions to your problems. By the way, why do you have two profiles?
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Either I'm thinking that I'm never going to drink again

 

Or I'm shagging like a bunny and not thinking at all

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Either I'm thinking that I'm never going to drink again

 

 

 

:lmao::lmao: Is that because you regret what you are doing or because of technical difficulties?

 

Or is what I'm asking TMI?

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:lmao::lmao: Is that because you regret what you are doing or because of technical difficulties?

 

The alcoholic affect on the penis was invented with a sense of irony. Its niggly little voice persuades you to seek sex all night, it makes it seem like a really good idea when it's not at all, then it goes to sleep at the crucial moment leaving you to deal with the fallout.TMI? I could go on all night about this :mad:

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The alcoholic affect on the penis was invented with a sense of irony. Its niggly little voice persuades you to seek sex all night, it makes it seem like a really good idea when it's not at all, then it goes to sleep at the crucial moment leaving you to deal with the fallout.TMI? I could go on all night about this :mad:

 

 

I would think that in those rare occasions where the goggles are on, your stubborn friend can actually prevent you from committing an act that you might severely regret once the haze wares off. In fact you should embrace the guy for looking out for you.

Of course if you want to dwell on the "who started it" aspect that is a different story....

 

But what do I know... I'm just a bitch in a habit.

;)

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Cellulite may be normal and common, but I honestly have never noticed any on any if the women I've dated, aged 18 - 35.

 

Cellulite describes a condition that occurs in men and women (although much more common in women) where the skin of the lower limbs, abdomen, and pelvic region becomes dimpled after puberty. [Doesn't say exactly when after puberty, could be decades after]

 

It is normal for pubescent females to display some degree of cellulite.[Normal, but not mandatory]

 

90% of post-adolescent women go on to develop cellulite at some time during their life although it is very hardly ever seen in men. The thighs, buttocks and the abdomen are the most common areas for a woman to develop cellulite. Although it is often mistaken for obesity, cellulite is not actually obesity related because it can also take place in thin lean women.

 

But again, cellulite is something women worry about more than men/ Eva Langoria has cellulite? Do you think many men are going to find her less attractive because of that?

 

JS -men don't expect air-brushed perfection. I've dated and know models, and none of them were 'perfect.' Perfect doesn't exist. Some of the male posters here are very blunt, yet none ever say 'I demand a perfect flawless body.'

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If you mean a real woman in real life, then I'll let you know when that happens! hahah

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Cellulite may be normal and common, but I honestly have never noticed any on any if the women I've dated, aged 18 - 35.

 

 

 

You never know. I am petite, 5'2 105lbs, and I have cellulite. Probably since age 12, don't really remember. I would complain about it with my ex, and he would say what are you talking about, I don't see any cellulite. Its usually on the back of my thighs right under my arse. I think thats the most common place.

 

Maybe men just don't notice, because they are looking elsewhere?

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I don't understand this statement. If you're getting at that men are deluded, then fine, your perception is your reality. Go date women or don't date at all. You're obviously not being productive in terms of seeking out solutions to your problems. By the way, why do you have two profiles?

 

Where did I say men were deluded? I said *I* didn't want to be deluded about what men are really like. I actually haven't been dating at all lately so thanks. And I wish I was attracted to women that way but am not. Funny you say that because Oprah had a show recently where women left their men to be with other women. Didn't watch it yet but I will.

 

What solution is there? I can only change my body so much.

 

As for my profiles, not that's any of your business but I wasn't on Loveshack for a long time and when I came back I couldn't remember my name. I had contacted loveshack support and got no resposne. So I made up the same name with the difference of a space. It was a matter of a space between my name, and sometimes I log on one or the other just randomly without thinking about it.

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But again, cellulite is something women worry about more than men/ Eva Langoria has cellulite? Do you think many men are going to find her less attractive because of that?

 

I think alot of men would look at that picture of her and be like "that's not what she looks like in a magazine". And make fun of her for it. I have seen men do that kind of stuff.

 

 

JS -men don't expect air-brushed perfection. I've dated and know models, and none of them were 'perfect.' Perfect doesn't exist. Some of the male posters here are very blunt, yet none ever say 'I demand a perfect flawless body.'

 

I know that. You know that. But that doesn't stop men from having the idealized fantasy about what they want women's body's to be.

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I also think that as a woman, it just seems you can't really win with guys.

 

Sounds like a guy could never really win with you. You're coming off as the type who thinks you always know what a guy is really thinking, and it's never good. It's certainly never in your favor.

 

I know that. You know that. But that doesn't stop men from having the idealized fantasy about what they want women's body's to be.

 

You have your own idealized fantasies about what men's hearts and minds are supposed to be. And you seem to overemphasize flaws. So it seems even to me. You can assume he secretly hates your body for no good reason while you secretly hate his soul for no good reason.

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"90% of post-adolescent women go on to develop cellulite at some time during their life although it is very hardly ever seen in men."

 

Key point to take away; 10% NEVER develop it and the phrase "at some time during their life" is a lot different than being over 12.

 

The quoted article actually reflects my personal observation for America. Foreign lands I'd say being fat is a lot less common and being fat certainly makes cellulite more obvious and gross. In fact I'd say that one of the factors that makes fat look disgusting is the cellulite effect. Some smooth baby fat can be cute.

 

 

Some of the male posters here are very blunt, yet none ever say 'I demand a perfect flawless body.'

 

What people like me write and what some women read into it are completely different things.

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Where did I say men were deluded? I said *I* didn't want to be deluded about what men are really like.

 

Ok then. I didn't understand the wording of that statement.

 

What solution is there? I can only change my body so much.
Doesn't have anything to do with your body, just your attitude.

 

 

As for my profiles, not that's any of your business but I wasn't on Loveshack for a long time and when I came back I couldn't remember my name. I had contacted loveshack support and got no resposne. So I made up the same name with the difference of a space. It was a matter of a space between my name, and sometimes I log on one or the other just randomly without thinking about it.
Ah, I know it's none of my business, I was just confused lol.
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Sounds like a guy could never really win with you. You're coming off as the type who thinks you always know what a guy is really thinking, and it's never good. It's certainly never in your favor.

 

 

Of course I don't know what he is always thinking.

 

You have your own idealized fantasies about what men's hearts and minds are supposed to be. And you seem to overemphasize flaws. So it seems even to me. You can assume he secretly hates your body for no good reason while you secretly hate his soul for no good reason.

 

Huh?? That's not even remotely true. Maybe it is for you, but not me.

 

 

"90% of post-adolescent women go on to develop cellulite at some time during their life although it is very hardly ever seen in men."

 

Key point to take away; 10% NEVER develop it and the phrase "at some time during their life" is a lot different than being over 12.

 

The quoted article actually reflects my personal observation for America. Foreign lands I'd say being fat is a lot less common and being fat certainly makes cellulite more obvious and gross. In fact I'd say that one of the factors that makes fat look disgusting is the cellulite effect. Some smooth baby fat can be cute.

 

Women naturally have more fat then men. You do realize that right? I'm not saying its reason to be obese but come on. The key phrase is that 90% do develop it because that's what most women's bodies are like. It's not gross and women aren't evil or bad for it. Quite honestly, please go to another country since you find american women distasteful. No woman wants to try having a relationship with a man that pretty much thinks this.

 

And babyfat, is called babyfat for a reason...because it's usually young girls that have it.

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Jersey Shortie what's the deal? What upsets you about this post?

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But why are you talking about something you like as a flaw? Then you say if he had hard abs, you'd love him "despite" his abs. The questions is not about what you consider a flaw, but are you being judgmental about the things you consider as flaws. Some men like a little bit of fat, but if they don't, how do they react to a woman who has extra 30 lbs. That's the question. You're telling us that you have a BF whom you find perfect and his perceived-by-society flaws are not flaws for you. That's great, but what do we do when you meet a guy who has flaws which YOU consider flaws? And how big is your BF's belly? What if he gained 100 lbs and his hair fell off? Would you still find him sexually attractive and tell him "No, I wouldn't change anything about you?"

 

I'm just saying that "flaws" are in the eye of the beholder. If he gained 100 lbs and his hair fell out... I'd have no problem... :laugh: I've actually dated bald guys and fat guys... No problem.

 

and I only refer to it as a "flaw" because that's what HE thinks it is. He's mystified that I'm attracted to him with what he thinks of as being disgusting. I AM MYSTIFIED he finds it gross at all. He's my cutie. :love:

 

I took exception to the idea that "flaws" are always this certain list of negatives.

 

Cellulite = flaw

Stretch marks = flaw

Belly fat = flaw

 

It seems disingenuous to say "Oh, I love the way she looks, but I can notice a flaw."

 

I'm trying to say you can NOTICE something like cellulite and not go, "Oh well it's a flaw but I think she's beautiful anyway." You can say, "Sure, she has cellulite, so what?"

 

There's a difference between simply noticing and noticing and being put off. Heck, I like guys with large noses.... one of my exes had a big nose and girl friends would make comments about it... To me, it was a BONUS, not a flaw at all. But they were certain I was "looking past it for love", since that's what THEY would be doing.

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Personally, I've never worried about guys picking apart my flaws when I'm naked. It's not that I'm perfect, but I feel like my body actually looks better with my clothes off so I expect guys to be pleasantly surprised at what they see. Somehow clothing makes me look thinner than I am (too thin), and obscures some of my curves. The one thing I'm a tad bit inhibited about is my arse. It's too small.

 

Besides which I wouldn't date any guy who was lame enough to analyze a woman top to bottom during sex. Superficial men like that are usually pretty easy to spot.

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I am never getting naked infront of a man again. :confused: Looks like we are always being judged.

 

 

 

Don't be silly. In my experience when a guy is really into you and having sex with you for the first time all that's running through his head is "DAMN I'm having sex with a beautiful/hot woman." He's not going to stop and pick you apart.

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