Die Hard Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I couldn't edit my last post but I wanted it to read: I'd take cellulite over a woman with a perfect body, who also happens to be a bitch, any day.
You'reasian Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Reading between TBF and Isolde's conversation is like watching two shrewd englishmen talk about fiscal policy with their ivory pipes in hand. "yesh yesh i shee.." Are these the early 20th century Englishmen with top hats and monacles?
mr.dream merchant Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Are these the early 20th century Englishmen with top hats and monacles? Yeah, chillin by the fireplace.
Die Hard Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I have a ghetto booty, my H loves it and so do other men...I have been told I have a nice butt by several men (none of which I was in a relationship with). Unfortuantly because I have a big butt I also have some cellulite around that area, but it comes with the territory. Luckily I don't obssess over it. I guess I could spend loads of time exercising to firm it up, using expensive creams, or getting surgery done to make it perfect, but I will settle with it just being awesome.Well since you posted a vulnerability I will too. I wish my pecker was bigger. It's very average. Exactly average, and it's always bothered me that I didn't get an above average one. The kind that makes girls run to their friends and tell them how huge you are. I'm very outgoing and a fun guy to be with but I've always felt my pecker doesn't measure up to my personality. Sure it does the job and the girls always say it fine, but I want them to be like "I'm not sure I can handle that" when they see it. That's just an example of one of my own physical hang-ups.
You'reasian Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Yeah, chillin by the fireplace. Just checking. As Bold Jack and the others have said above, why do people always have to look at things as flaws? Women can be curvy, busty and hot or long, leggy and bendable - ladies if we like you, we like you. We're gonna show you we like you too. Please don't obsess.
redfathom Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I couldn't edit my last post but I wanted it to read: I'd take cellulite over a woman with a perfect body, who also happens to be a bitch, any day.Ever notice how fat ladies have big attitudes. At least the ones I know.
redfathom Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Yeah, I would be the "I don't think I could handle that". Some woman are just gobblers and can take anything. I guess no one is perfect, maybe these ladies should wish for bigger boxes.
Die Hard Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Ever notice how fat ladies have big attitudes. At least the ones I know.No I've noticed the hotter the chick, the more she thinks she's god's gift. Makes me wish for a chick with some cellulite who doesn't think she's doing me a favor by sleeping with me.
PinkKittyKat Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Geez:D when did I pretend I was so great!? Trust me man, I've got my own issues that make me not so great. Though, isn't loving her despite the cellulite enough? It's not like I walked around thinking "you're lucky I'm with you since you have cellulite." In fact, I felt lucky to be with her when I could. I loved her, it simply didn't matter or define my investment in her, or make me care any less for her. I will admit if god himself came down and asked if I wanted to eliminate it I'd say "sure, why the heck not?" I'd change lots of stuff about my own body if I could. I highly suspect that the girl in question would have eliminated the flaw too, if she could. She was WAAAY more judgmental regarding her cellulite than I EVER was. As far as she knew, I never even noticed it. That's what I told her when she'd bring it up. I thought this thread I should be for honest thoughts. It's not that hard since it's the internet and I'm anonymous, so no I don't think I'm great for it. I bet she DID know. And that's the thing, you didn't "just notice it". You "noticed it, judged it as unattractive, and decided to love her anyhow". But if anything had come along to change that you'd have been happy. I know for a fact that if I suggested having any sort of plastic surgery my bf would FLIP. Seriously, he gets quite huffy with me as it is with any physical things I complain about. If he changed anything, it wouldn't be because HE wanted to, it would be because he knows I hate certain things about my body. And if he ever suggested going for lipo to get rid of his belly he hates I'd be HORRIFIED! If god himself came down and asked if I wanted to eliminate it I'd say "No, thank you." I'd want him to feel okay about himself without changing. Come to think of it, I had a bf once(my first love ) and I have pale pale silvery stretch marks barely visible on my upper thighs(I'm sooo pale). One day I noticed them and FLIPPED out, frantic that they were hideous. He looked at them, said "Oh, hey yeah... crazy. Wanna see mine?" And showed me the stretch marks on his hips. They were way more noticeable than mine because he had dark skin. And yet I'd never noticed them on HIM! He started calling them my "little tiger stripes", and he'd play with them, running his fingers up and down them. He said the skin was softer there, and he'd kiss it. There is no doubt in my mind, to this day, that he didn't simply "love me in spite of them", he loved me, and everything about me. He liked my stretch marks! He would never have taken a deal with any entity to get rid of the stripes on his little tiger kitten. LOL I found out he even asked my current bf about a few things, pointing out all my awesome features... including those, among other things... (they're friends, so it's not weird! Okay, not THAT weird.) That's not going to be the case with every guy, obviously. But my current bf did the same thing. I asked if my stretch marks bothered him and he started showing me his! He has them on his back, legs, biceps, hips.... He did a bodybuilding thing a while back but stopped suddenly. The rapidly dropping bulk caused them. He's also darker than me and they're much more apparent. And many more of them!!!! And I hadn't noticed them either. You can't see them right away, but then you do when you're looking for it. They're....beautiful. It's so stupid, but I finally see what my ex was saying. They're these...small delicate silvery fractal tracings of soft skin that flow with the lines of the body. I understand the "noticing flaws" argument. I noticed flaws in my flings, because those were for sex/fun etc. I don't view anything on my S/O as a flaw.... otherwise why would I be dating them?
Die Hard Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Yeah, I would be the "I don't think I could handle that". Some woman are just gobblers and can take anything. I guess no one is perfect, maybe these ladies should wish for bigger boxes.I was given a Honda Accord for a penis. It does the job, gets you from point A to point B, but I wanted a 69' Camaro with four on the floor.
Die Hard Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I bet she DID know. And that's the thing, you didn't "just notice it". You "noticed it, judged it as unattractive, and decided to love her anyhow". Yeah I'm a real prick. Loving someone despite their flaws is terribly flawed behavior. It's called unconditional love. I feel like some people here live in an alternate universe or something. Or maybe I do, I don't know.
clv0116 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I feel like some people here live in an alternate universe or something. Or maybe I do, I don't know. The forum is pink dude, you can either be a good mangina and lie or tell the truth and be raked over the coals for it. Your choice.
boxing123 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Why is it so important to you that I change my mind? It's not going to change. I don't need to change it, as you don't need to change your perspective. And yes, upfront, I would reject a man with a 1" pecker. At least this would be something done previous to investment. Once you're down the road to investment, it gets more hurtful to be rejected. You can thank your lucky stars that you found out someone felt this way, before going any further. Wow, such hypocrisy.. So, as we know women often times "false advertise". Push up bras, girdles, certain underwear etc.. So when you see this woman undress, and her boobs are flat and sag to her belly button , yes we notice. And it is a flaw. And yes, a turn off for many men, and yes it is over. So what if men start wearing some type of device that makes it look like they have a huge pecker. You know, false advertising similar to how women do it. Then it is time to have sex, and you notice he has been false advertising, and he is hung like a turtle. That would be overlooked, because you have feelings? Or you would feel hoodwinked?
PinkKittyKat Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Yeah I'm a real prick. Loving someone despite their flaws is terribly flawed behavior. It's called unconditional love. I feel like some people here live in an alternate universe or something. Or maybe I do, I don't know. READ THE REST OF MY POST.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I was given a Honda Accord for a penis. It does the job, gets you from point A to point B, but I wanted a 69' Camaro with four on the floor. My uncle has a 69 Camaro SS. Dunno what his penis looks like though.
voldigicam Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Unusual thinking. It's just skin. I have a bit of curiosity, mainly I want to keep getting to know someone. It's simply not a big deal to me. I see naked people all the time. Our house is clothes optional and we've spent a lot of time at nude resorts. It's a very good thing. I know what people look like naked, so it's not a surprise. In the sex domain, I'm more interested in what someone feels like, and what they like to do.
Sam Spade Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 In all honesty, please: Are you comparing her to the other women you've been with? Are you judging her or rating her? How much do you notice her flaws? I'm thinking "Baby, I'm taking you downtown Sin City" . First time sex is rarely that great.
yongyong Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 well I don't care if she wears size 2 or 4. if she has little bit of belly, it disgusts me. of course, I don't have any of that and I have right to have that kinda standards
Sam Spade Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 In fact, in my last relationship, I let my tummy get a little soft during the winter, but whatever -- I knew when it warmed up and I got more active, it'd flatten out again. My boyfriend loved to spoon me and put his hand on my stomach and rub it. He once said, "I love that you always let me touch your stomach. I've never had a girlfriend who would let me do that." He said they would always whine, complain about their stomach, and wiggle away. He said he loved that I wasn't self-conscious and I would let him touch me anywhere. WTF, tummies (aka the gunts ) are awesome (within reason, like anything).
JerseyShortie Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Cellulite is nastay! If you are over the age of 12, you got cellulite. Some more then others but I hate to break it to you and your airbrushed fantasies, real women have it. Even Paris Hilton. My uncle has a 69 Camaro SS. Dunno what his penis looks like though. You sure about that?
mr.dream merchant Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 If you are over the age of 12, you got cellulite. Some more then others but I hate to break it to you and your airbrushed fantasies, real women have it. Even Paris Hilton. You sure about that? Yeah, pretty sure I haven't peeped my uncles cock.
clv0116 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 If you are over the age of 12, you got cellulite. I'll be sure to look yet again, but I'm pretty sure only one of the girls I date ATM has much fat and I've never noticed any cellulite. Cellulite is just connective tissue that forms inside fat if I understand correctly. I certainly have been with plenty of women with plenty of cellulite before, but they were all over 30, not just over 12. Maybe it's the water in Jersey? But then in a previous thread we determined that the women I date are underweight twigs who lack 'healthy' amounts of flesh on their tiny little bones.
yongyong Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 If you are over the age of 12, you got cellulite. Some more then others but I hate to break it to you and your airbrushed fantasies, real women have it. Even Paris Hilton. please don't generalize other females around the world based on U.S women. it's ok to have cellulite if you are over 12??? do parents feed their kids with all nasty shixx these days? maybe if you are over 50, it's ok to have cellulite
Ruby Slippers Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 If you've ever been in a woman's locker room, you can see that many women, even thin ones, have cellulite. I have friends who are size 2 or size 4, thin and in shape, and have a little here and there, usually around the butt and upper legs. When I lived in Europe, I was amazed to see that they often do NOT airbrush it away in magazines. I was reading a fitness magazine, and the thin, in-shape model demonstrating the exercises had some on her butt and on the backs of her legs. Very common, doesn't mean you're fat. And it's certainly not disgusting.
MN randomguy Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 In all honesty, please: Are you comparing her to the other women you've been with? Are you judging her or rating her? How much do you notice her flaws? Oh my god she's naked! I'm actually with a naked girl! Obviously I'm not around naked girls very often. +1 But, seriously, Whatever your best feature is that drew him in. He wants to actually get to play with that. If you've got this or that flaw, he' s probably too distracted to spend much time on that part of your body.
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