PinkKittyKat Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 On the other hand, getting fat is *entirely* within a person's control. So, do I have to spell out the rest of this ? but getting cellulite ISN'T entirely within a person's control. What then? Go to the gym? You can't work off cellulite! It's how the fat is CONSTRUCTED. You can lose weight, maybe make it less apparent, but it's still cellulite. Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 In all honesty, please: Are you comparing her to the other women you've been with? Are you judging her or rating her? How much do you notice her flaws? No, it never really enters my mind to compare her. I am judging her on how hard my dick gets when I see her naked. The main flaw I would notice is if I don't get turned on. Link to post Share on other sites
lino Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Sure I'll compare a girl im currently getting naked with, with ones I've been naked with in the past... Whats wrong with that? She's probably doing the same with me anyway. I think anyone who denies they do this to some extent are fooling themselves & not being honest. Btw, its not true all women have cellulite, I've seen many & been with girls who don't have it... And yes a lot of it is a huge turn off. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Sure I'll compare a girl im currently getting naked with, with ones I've been naked with in the past... Whats wrong with that? She's probably doing the same with me anyway. I think anyone who denies they do this to some extent are fooling themselves & not being honest.Nope. Neither fooling myself or being dishonest. Is it so difficult to accept that people don't judge or compare other peoples' bodies by the time they hit the sack with them? Is it possible that some of us actually care about the individual inside and accept that they're a package v. just a slab of meat to be compared to the last slab of meat? Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Is it possible that some of us actually care about the individual inside and accept that they're a package v. just a slab of meat to be compared to the last slab of meat?Yes, even further, I've never even considered the intimate relations if their past. It's like that time and those lovers did not exist for me. Perhaps it was a side-effect of remaining a virgin so long, IDK. Interesting though Link to post Share on other sites
Die Hard Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Is it possible that some of us actually care about the individual inside and accept that they're a package v. just a slab of meat to be compared to the last slab of meat?It's also possible that those of us who do notice feel the same as you, we just happen to be highly observant and comparative in nature. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Yes, even further, I've never even considered the intimate relations if their past. It's like that time and those lovers did not exist for me. Perhaps it was a side-effect of remaining a virgin so long, IDK. Interesting though While I'm not interested in sleeping with anyone who views sex as an appetite, by the time I've hit the sack with anyone, his exes never threaten or bother me. I will admit that it's totally offensive to me if anyone else does the "baby, you're the best [insert act]". I don't want to be the best, I am me, so shove your past where the sun don't shine! Link to post Share on other sites
Die Hard Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 I will admit that it's totally offensive to me if anyone else does the "baby, you're the best [insert act]Yeah I hate when that happens. Happens all the time to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Yeah I hate when that happens. Happens all the time to me.Are you honestly so shallow you don't understand where I'm coming from? Link to post Share on other sites
Die Hard Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Are you honestly so shallow you don't understand where I'm coming from?I'm not shallow TBF, but I do not understand where you're coming from. Of course, if my outlook is different than yours, I guess that makes me shallow? I'm sorry I simply notice things about others' bodies. I'm flawed that way. Oh, and shallow now, too. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 It's ok, Die Hard. You have honesty going for you. Cretin! Link to post Share on other sites
Die Hard Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 I was just following your lead. You were the first one to be honest in this thread, you piece of crap you. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 I'm not shallow TBF, but I do not understand where you're coming from. Of course, if my outlook is different than yours, I guess that makes me shallow? I'm sorry I simply notice things about others' bodies. I'm flawed that way. Oh, and shallow now, too. Maybe one day you'll understand that to love someone, you have to accept all of them, lumps and bumps inclusive, without judgement. But then, you don't view sex the same way I do either, where I don't sleep with anyone who I don't care about. It's not just superficially, like at the beginning of the meet and greet process, where it's just surface attraction but when you get to know them, down deep. When you can understand what makes them tick and want it all. When you respect and fully trust them as individuals, so by the time you strip down, you're all in. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 I was just following your lead. You were the first one to be honest in this thread, you piece of crap you. He's really not that bad. A little shallow perhaps... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 He's really not that bad. A little shallow perhaps...A little? Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 A little? Nice kitty... Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Btw, its not true all women have cellulite, I've seen many & been with girls who don't have it... And yes a lot of it is a huge turn off. Maybe you're just a male pig who's always expecting an airbrushed woman, how about that? Hmmm? Well? Link to post Share on other sites
Die Hard Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Maybe one day you'll understand that to love someone, you have to accept all of them, lumps and bumps inclusive, without judgement. But then, you don't view sex the same way I do either, where I don't sleep with anyone who I don't care about. It's not just superficially, like at the beginning of the meet and greet process, where it's just surface attraction but when you get to know them, down deep. When you can understand what makes them tick and want it all. When you respect and fully trust them as individuals, so by the time you strip down, you're all in.Why don't you try actually reading my posts in this thread, TBF. Your first paragraph mirrors what I've already said except I admit noticing the flaws. I'm not trying to fight with you. You called me a good man in another thread so I have a certain amount of affection for you, but you're reading way more into my responses to this thread, or not reading them at all. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 I was just following your lead. You were the first one to be honest in this thread, you piece of crap you. Well, just don't get trapped into defending your right to think and feel however you want. You know what is in your heart. And those of us who live on the second tier of humanity need to focus on wallowing in our own muck. Let's not soil the higher ups! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Nice kitty... How about A LOT? Try sole focus and priority! Link to post Share on other sites
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