Scarlett513 Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 In all honesty, please: Are you comparing her to the other women you've been with? Are you judging her or rating her? How much do you notice her flaws? Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 TBH, I'm completely focused on giving her pleasure and making her feel beautiful. Her body is merely a vehicle (Translation: No, I don't compare her to other women and I don't notice her "flaws") Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 In all honesty, please: Are you comparing her to the other women you've been with? Are you judging her or rating her? How much do you notice her flaws? No. I'm usually admiring and hopefully out of my own clothes too. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 Here's a terrible story about something that happened in one of my old companies. There was this sexy young girl who started with the firm, I think you know the type who liked to be overly-sexual. Anyways, all the young bucks did the normal thing of sniffing around her, trying to get her attention. One night, at an office function, she had a few too many and went home with "The office stud". The next day, rumours flew around the office like mad. The guy spent the entire morning bragging about banging her and dissing her body. This guy was the biggest player at the office, very good-looking and very wealthy, his Daddy was 2nd in command. So, the moral of the story is that when a man honestly cares about you, it's not solely raging hormones that take over. He's not going to notice minor flaws, more interested in the entire package. If he's only interested in getting into your pants, he'll be analyzing you a lot more. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 So, the moral of the story is that when a man honestly cares about you, it's not solely raging hormones that take over. He's not going to notice minor flaws, more interested in the entire package. . Its both. If I care about her, my raging hormones still take over Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 Its both. If I care about her' date=' my raging hormones still take over [/quote'] But that's not all that takes over or maybe it's that raging hormones hit at tsunami level, reliant on level of caring. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 But that's not all that takes over or maybe it's that raging hormones hit at tsunami level, reliant on level of caring. I'm hoping my raging hormones will allow me to get splashed by her tsunami. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 TBH, I'm completely focused on giving her pleasure and making her feel beautiful. Her body is merely a vehicle (Translation: No, I don't compare her to other women and I don't notice her "flaws") Gosh you're great. When I see a girl out of her clothes, most of the time I think she actually looked better when she had some of them on. It doesn't stand in my way of course, and I'm clever enough to keep those thoughts to myself. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 One for the guys: what do you think the first time you see a woman naked?Oh my god she's naked! I'm actually with a naked girl! Obviously I'm not around naked girls very often. Link to post Share on other sites
boldjack Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 I've seen a great many, and it's always a new experience. Each is different, like different types of flowers. Link to post Share on other sites
Die Hard Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 Gosh you're great. When I see a girl out of her clothes, most of the time I think she actually looked better when she had some of them on. It doesn't stand in my way of course, and I'm clever enough to keep those thoughts to myself.This is truth. You asked for 100% honesty and it's not trying mean but it's the truth. I don't believe women are much different. Of course you get the chicks where you're like holy **** when when you see her naked, but most people have flaws, and it's only human to simply notice them, horny or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 So Scarlett, now you know who to sleep with on LS, and who not to. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 I actually find women sexier with clothes on, including various and sundry undergarment items, but such gets in the way of the largest organ of the person, the skin, and all its various and sundry sensory receptors. Carhill's playground Link to post Share on other sites
Die Hard Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 So Scarlett, now you know who to sleep with on LS, and who not to. So you've never undressed a man and been like ****e he's perfect? Or thought jesus he really " came out of his clothes", so to say? There are flaws in women that bother me, but there have also been women that had these flaws, and it mattered zero to me ...regarding how I felt about her. Link to post Share on other sites
boxing123 Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 Some women do look better with clothes than without. A woman does not need a perfect body, but sometimes you can be VERY into a woman, and if she has something disagreeable to you (others might be fine with it), you lose a lot of interest. I was dating a girl who looked great with clothes. She was slender, but had some pooch type, soft belly that kind of was wrinkly. I can't even explain it. I was very turned off and lost interest. So yes, sometimes you think WOW, and like them more, and sometimes you see something that makes you completely turned off. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 One for the guys: what do you think the first time you see a woman naked?? i think that i'm about to have sex with a new woman Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 So you've never undressed a man and been like ****e he's perfect? Or thought jesus he really " came out of his clothes", so to say? There are flaws in women that bother me, but there have also been women that had these flaws, and it mattered zero to me ...regarding how I felt about her. Straight up, every man I've slept with, I've considered their bodies amazing. There's nothing more stimulating than the difference between hard angles and soft curves. But then, I've only slept with men I've cared about. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 So Scarlett, now you know who to sleep with on LS, and who not to. Exactly my thoughts. Thins out the herd wouldn't you say? Link to post Share on other sites
Die Hard Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 Straight up, every man I've slept with, I've considered their bodies amazing. There's nothing more stimulating than the difference between hard angles and soft curves. But then, I've only slept with men I've cared about.When you put it like that I believe you and respect that. I have trouble expressing myself most times so the only way I can explain where I'm coming from is using a christmas present as an example. Sometimes it's a great present and you're more excited than say ...if you get clothes(me being a guy I'd rather have something else.) Undressing a woman is like opening a present. I cannot believe that most men don't feel this way deep down. But I ALWAYS appreciate the gift and the thought behind it. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 Exactly my thoughts. Thins out the herd wouldn't you say? Totally! Making out with someone shouldn't have to include being concerned about every flaw. If that's the case, the guy's not that into you! Link to post Share on other sites
boldjack Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 I wasn't aware of any "flaws " about a person. There are "differences" but not" Flaws". Flaws implies a qualitative structure and is by definition, elitist. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 I have trouble expressing myself most times so the only way I can explain where I'm coming from is using a christmas present as an example. Hahaha! That was really funny. But I ALWAYS appreciate the gift and the thought behind it.But when somebody buys you a clothing item, they sometimes say "You can replace it if it's too big or too small." I don't think you've ever heard that from a woman. Although they do replace sizes nowadays. Link to post Share on other sites
fral945 Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 I’m not comparing her to other women at that moment. I just look at her and think “wow” about certain things and “hmmm” about others. Later on I admit I will compare her to other women when my mind is clear. I would say I do judge her (whether or not I like her physically) but rate her? No. I probably don’t notice her flaws as much as she does. If she has the general body type and look I like and doesn’t have a weight problem I can overlook a lot of little flaws. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 I am never getting naked infront of a man again. Looks like we are always being judged. TBH, I'm completely focused on giving her pleasure and making her feel beautiful. Her body is merely a vehicle (Translation: No, I don't compare her to other women and I don't notice her "flaws") What kind of vehicle? An old bankrupt Saturn brand or a hot sleek little Audi. Why are you so different from most of the guys here? Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 I am never getting naked infront of a man again. Looks like we are always being judged. Jaysus, I know I have problems with excess negativity, but hell. I haven't seen a single post on this thread that should make you feel this way. The "Christmas present" analogy is perfect. Even though I've been opening the same present for years. Link to post Share on other sites
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