Lucky555 Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 So I have noticed this guy and hes rather cute however if he is remotely interested do you think he would approach me? I go to school and he does stare at me whenever we are in the same vicinity. I look at him as well. this type of guy is someone i could see myself really "wanting" to hit things off with. He is in a prestigious program and i am too. He is the type of I would have no excuse not to date. He seems like a "quality" guy. The vibe i get when i see this guy is this peacefulness and inclination to talk to see what he is about. I have always had a lot of chemistry with guys in the past before getting to know them more and then every time it has ENDED! So now i think I should be getting to know people even if there is not an off the charts vibe. he does seem like a confident guy, I hope he does not have a gf So do guys generally approach a girl if they want to get to know her better? However, if the guy has gf i know he wont approach me, so if he never does i will assume this.
colosseum Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 So do guys generally approach a girl if they want to get to know her better? However, if the guy has gf i know he wont approach me, so if he never does i will assume this. Guys will approach girls they're interested only if they're confident/courageous enough to do it. It's much more often the case that the guy just won't because though he's interested, he's 1) overthinking it 2) afraid of failing/screwing-it-up/giving-bad-first-impression. Trust me--I'm trying to fix this myself b/c it's been the story of my life. Guys just need to work up the courage to just approach girls. And no; generally speaking, IMO, guys who have the balls will approach girls they're interested in whether they have a gf or not--unless he's married or his gf is totally crazy. I say he's 1. a creeper 2. really weirdly not interested in even meeting you or 3. just shy/not wanting to screw things up, which i think is the most likely case (I'm willing to bet serious $ on this one) You want to help the guy? Don't wait for him to approach you--go up and say hi to him or seomthing; when that happens for guys who have gone down the overthinking path, it's a HUGE relief.
Author Lucky555 Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 I have usually just waited for the guy for probably 99.9% of the time to approach me. I think i will start small, maybe smile! I myself over think things because I know he is type of guy that is doing something with his life. It really impresses me so I'm like gosh I don't want to screw things up or finding out he has a gf. He does appear like he has confidence though so for my sake i hope he does approach me. I'm leaving this one to fate, because i think if hes interested he will "happen to run into me" since we have a similar schedules due to our majors. Hes just so cute and definitely a different type of guy than previous ones i have dated, which would be a good thing. Thanks for the insight
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