audrey_1 Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 So I got a text message from the ex last night around 10:30. The last two times he's contacted me have been about my mailing address for a birthday gift, which is tomorrow. I already sent him the address two weeks ago (reluctantly!!). Can't he go back and find it? Is he really that lazy or a combination of stupid and lazy? Here was the exchange. ------ Him: Hi. May I have your mailing addy again? Me: LOLOL!!! No. Him: Please! Me: No. Start making note of things. Him: Grrr Then I got the email below this morning. It was already in my box when I got to work. Begin forwarded message: Okay, so I'm BEGGING you for your address now. Are you happy? You finally got me to BEG! Please don't tell anyone because I don't want to ruin my reputation. (Wait a minute, what reputation...) PLEASE!!! ------ I've been doing NC as best I can. I even asked his mom to tell him to leave me alone, which apparently she didn't do. He's seeing someone else. Why do they do this? I don't even CARE to get a gift from him. Why do these types of people have this odd emotional need? It's so dysfunctional. I just want to be FREE and move on. I'm not sure how to respond, or even IF I SHOULD respond. Help!
Trialbyfire Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 "I've given my address to your mother for safekeeping. In future, go ask her."
Author audrey_1 Posted March 24, 2009 Author Posted March 24, 2009 Ha Ha! That made me chuckle. Sounds like it could be fun, if I even bother. Ugh. It's MY birthday.
Trialbyfire Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 Happy Birthday Audrey! Another idea. "Give the present to your mother and I'll go pick it up from her when I have time."
Author audrey_1 Posted March 24, 2009 Author Posted March 24, 2009 Here is my response: My address is: Army Navy Dr & Fern St Arlington, VA 22202 Oh wait, that's the Pentagon. My bad. Are you kidding me with this? If it REALLY mattered to you, you would have kept my addy handy when I sent it the first time...not scrambling last minute. Ask yourself why I would want anything from someone like that. When's the last time we spoke? Now stop inserting yourself on the eve of MY ONE DAY OF THE YEAR THAT'S ALL MINE. YOU BROKE MY HEART and are the last person I want to think about. Thanks.
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