Lizzie60 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Can't turn a ho into a housewife. Can you turn a housewife into a ho..
boxing123 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Some women actually make CERTAIN men wait, while they are having sex with a FWB. Would that be better Stockalone? Women also go through phases. They might be wild for a couple of years, then calm, then in the middle. Who really cares to judge them for having sex with you quickly? That "good girl" whom makes you wait might have had sex with twice as many people in the past than you have.
Charles1978 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 In a word... yes. I've done it before. Turned into a great relationship. She is now a church-goer... like was said... people go through phases.
Stockalone Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 But, Stock, would you still f*ck her and look down your nose at her? No, I wouldn't have sex with her. I really don't know why people are so intent on "labeling". others. I've known women in clubs,who, when given RESPECT and treated with kindness, have become the most faithful and loving, wives,mothers and lovers. I've known Rich, spoiled, pampered women become total wh**es. I'm not into religion, but the golden rule is still the best to live by. Treat people, how you would be treated. I have never met a totally bad woman or a totally good one. Every person deserves to be treated as a human being. But I don't see the problem with judging people based on the choices they make. I fully expect to be treated in the same way. Well, Stock, that must be me, I find the whole idea of "dealbreakers" to be childish and short-sighted. I guess that's because I'm no angel, myself, and don't expect others to be. I live my life the way I see fit. I make my choices based on what I believe is right. I accept that other people will make different choices. But that doesn't mean that I have to respect every choice that other people make. And that's when dealbreakers come into play, when someone else has made choices that are too far outside of my comfort zone. When I can no longer respect those choices, it's time to not get involved further and move on. However, you COULD be missing out on the best person ever. But that's your business. I understand what you are saying but I don't see that as missing out. Besides, you could use that argument for literally everything. If you take this to the extreme, theoretically, the love of my life could be a man and I could be missing out on that because I am not gay. Or should I have tried to date every women I have ever met, after all, she could have been the love of my life? Good point. Stock, have you ever had a ONS? Or do you just NOT have casual sex, at all? No, I never had a ONS or casual sex. The opportunity was there once, a long time ago and I immediately lost interest in the woman even though I did like her up to this point. For various reasons, I have sex when I am in a commited relationship and when I am single, I don't have sex. Some women actually make CERTAIN men wait, while they are having sex with a FWB. Would that be better Stockalone? That "good girl" whom makes you wait might have had sex with twice as many people in the past than you have. No, that would be even worse. I ask about those things, so if she doesn't tell me the truth, it makes her a liar. Been there, been lied to and then dumped her when I found out the truth. He does seem to be a straight arrow, but he hasn't answered my very pointed question, so... So many question, so little time. I didn't want to appear evasive. I hope I didn't miss one of the question you guys asked.
Lucky_One Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Good replies, and ones that I can agree with for myself personally.
boldjack Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Stock, your ways are your ways, I personally don't agree with them, but you have every right to express them. My opinions are based on a great deal of experience. I am not judgmental (only towards myself) because I have a past that includes "serial cheating". I always try to be respectful and honest to all women, because I have caused them so much heartache in the past.
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