Author mr.dream merchant Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 I'm a guy and wasn't going to comment, but since you asked... I just don't pick up club hos in the first place. Not saying there's anything wrong with it, but it's just not for me. More power to you. I live out in South Florida. So I mean the club hos are just...you stick your hand out the window on South Beach and you'll catch some pussy. But with all that sex comes some pretty risky percentages of STD's and HIV. So you play it pretty safe to stay away from that scene. Now me, when I'm single, and I'm out with the guys, there's nothing wrong with leaving with a club ho or two on ya arm. But to me they're just fun for the night, I would never consider committing to them or expecting them to qualify me as LTR material. Maybe LTFWB material, but not relationship.
confused_2008 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 More power to you. I live out in South Florida. So I mean the club hos are just...you stick your hand out the window on South Beach and you'll catch some pussy. But with all that sex comes some pretty risky percentages of STD's and HIV. So you play it pretty safe to stay away from that scene. Now me, when I'm single, and I'm out with the guys, there's nothing wrong with leaving with a club ho or two on ya arm. But to me they're just fun for the night, I would never consider committing to them or expecting them to qualify me as LTR material. Maybe LTFWB material, but not relationship. LTFWB, that's a new one And yeah, I am from a rural area so I'd have to drive an hour or so to get to any clubs. I stick my hand out the window around home and all I get is a handful of bugs. And the women you see out in the bars?
Author mr.dream merchant Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 LTFWB, that's a new one And yeah, I am from a rural area so I'd have to drive an hour or so to get to any clubs. I stick my hand out the window around home and all I get is a handful of bugs. And the women you see out in the bars? No really man, I remember I met this club ho and that experience blossomed into the best sex I've ever had in my life. Not just on one night but numerous occasions. She became a FWB and we'd meet up and **** the hell out of each other. She gave the best head I've ever had. I mean it was so serious she gave me a hickie on my shaft. My mind was blown, to be honest I miss her. Not because I have any emotions for her, its just, that sex was so amazing. I would've never committed to her, but we shared some good times. I found out she's committed to some guy now and all I could do was laugh and think to myself "Man if only he knew what I did to his chick, what a lucky mother ****er." That guy is getting some serious sex right now.
boldjack Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 The main reason that I've had a certain degree of success with women is I don't differentiate, I treat ALL women the same , as ladies. I don't judge and I don't care what their background is, if I like their looks and their personality, and they like mine, then we're good to go. I've had ONS that have turned into relationships, and the other way round. Being judgmental or elitist or discriminating, means that you may be missing out on the love of your life......, or not. But if you don't give them a chance, how will you know?
RecordProducer Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 What is a Club Ho? A woman who spends five nights per week clubbing and ends up in a different guy's bed every time? A woman you met tonight who was drunk enough to sleep with you? A woman who would never commit to you, so she will use you as a free booty cuz she hasn't had sex in 9 months? A woman who just had her heart broken and she doesn't really know what she's doing?
loser101 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 No really man, I remember I met this club ho and that experience blossomed into the best sex I've ever had in my life. Not just on one night but numerous occasions. She became a FWB and we'd meet up and **** the hell out of each other. She gave the best head I've ever had. I mean it was so serious she gave me a hickie on my shaft. My mind was blown, to be honest I miss her. Not because I have any emotions for her, its just, that sex was so amazing. I would've never committed to her, but we shared some good times. I found out she's committed to some guy now and all I could do was laugh and think to myself "Man if only he knew what I did to his chick, what a lucky mother ****er." That guy is getting some serious sex right now. I think you are a really confused and prudish. it's really off-putting in a man, especially as your type often has double-standards as demonstrated in this thread. what a bore
loser101 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Apologies if you got the impression I suscribe to a philosophy that hinders women's sexuality. I have met plenty of men who think progressively on the matter. In my post, I was speaking more specifically to people who think like MDM (there is a quantifier stuck in there somewhere) . I know. I just read somewhere else about some young guy that tried to pressure you into sex and you used the same expression. of course it's fair to want more intimacy before you sleep with someone but I don't understand why anyone describe that as 'giving in'. surely it's about what you want as well?
St. Nick Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 What is a Club Ho? A woman who spends five nights per week clubbing and ends up in a different guy's bed every time? A woman you met tonight who was drunk enough to sleep with you? A woman who would never commit to you, so she will use you as a free booty cuz she hasn't had sex in 9 months? A woman who just had her heart broken and she doesn't really know what she's doing? The bolded part is the best definition of a club ho. She knows all the guys in the club, she's there constantly, and she's in there for sex. A club ho knows what she's doing. She's not in the club because she's drunk, hasn't had sex in 9 months, or is heartbroken. She's in there specifically for ****ing, getting drinks cheap or free, to have every guy stare and spend on her, and to gold-dig.
Dexter Morgan Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Would you commit to a club ho? absolutely not. I don't date clubbers and don't go to clubs. About the extent of it may be I will go to a local bar after work on a Friday with a few friends to watch a game or something, but not to hook up with anyone. In my experience, partiers/clubbers,whatever, don't have a good track record of being faithful.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 Can't turn a ho into a housewife.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 But you guys are ALWAYS trying to turn a housewife into your own personal ho. Lol. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 Yeah in most cases, but there are some fellas out there that can command a thick and sexy broad whenever. I think alot of people are confusing a female who has a strong sense of sexuality with a ho. There's a fine line between the two.
Kamille Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I know. I just read somewhere else about some young guy that tried to pressure you into sex and you used the same expression. of course it's fair to want more intimacy before you sleep with someone but I don't understand why anyone describe that as 'giving in'. surely it's about what you want as well? It is a good point loser101. Of course, in this context, the young guy was trying to coax me into sex, so if I had ignored my own feelings about it, I would have been giving in. I stayed my ground so it was about what I wanted. But I will try and express it differently. Signed: an equal opportunity feminist.
Lucky_One Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 No really man, I remember I met this club ho and that experience blossomed into the best sex I've ever had in my life. Not just on one night but numerous occasions. She became a FWB and we'd meet up and **** the hell out of each other. She gave the best head I've ever had. I mean it was so serious she gave me a hickie on my shaft. My mind was blown, to be honest I miss her. Not because I have any emotions for her, its just, that sex was so amazing. I would've never committed to her, but we shared some good times. I found out she's committed to some guy now and all I could do was laugh and think to myself "Man if only he knew what I did to his chick, what a lucky mother ****er." That guy is getting some serious sex right now. A fantastic example of a boy before he's turned into a man. OP, you are only 20, and assuming that you have been faithful to your GF of 10 months, you are quite the little "club ho" yourself, eh?
Lucky_One Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 What is a Club Ho? A woman who spends five nights per week clubbing and ends up in a different guy's bed every time? A woman you met tonight who was drunk enough to sleep with you? A woman who would never commit to you, so she will use you as a free booty cuz she hasn't had sex in 9 months? A woman who just had her heart broken and she doesn't really know what she's doing? Nice post, but the saddest part is that a guy can't tell which woman he's met, not in that atmosphere and in that short a period of time. According to most of the guys on here, the guys are going to dismiss her and think less of her, regardless of her motivations and personality.
You'reasian Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 The main reason that I've had a certain degree of success with women is I don't differentiate, I treat ALL women the same , as ladies. I don't judge and I don't care what their background is, if I like their looks and their personality, and they like mine, then we're good to go. I've had ONS that have turned into relationships, and the other way round. Being judgmental or elitist or discriminating, means that you may be missing out on the love of your life......, or not. But if you don't give them a chance, how will you know? Well said and I agree.
Stockalone Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Being judgmental or elitist or discriminating, means that you may be missing out on the love of your life......, or not. But if you don't give them a chance, how will you know? This only makes sense if people have absolutely no dealbreakers, which I don't believe is the case. We all have things that we can never accept from a SO. If I identify a dealbreaker (e.g. incompatible core values), there is no point in giving such women a chance. She can never be the love of my life, nor could I be hers.
boldjack Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I really don't know why people are so intent on "labeling". others. I've known women in clubs,who, when given RESPECT and treated with kindness, have become the most faithful and loving, wives,mothers and lovers. I've known Rich, spoiled, pampered women become total wh**es. I'm not into religion, but the golden rule is still the best to live by. Treat people, how you would be treated. I have never met a totally bad woman or a totally good one.
boldjack Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Well, Stock, that must be me, I find the whole idea of "dealbreakers" to be childish and short-sighted. I guess that's because I'm no angel, myself, and don't expect others to be.
Lucky_One Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 If I identify a dealbreaker (e.g. incompatible core values), there is no point in giving such women a chance. She can never be the love of my life, nor could I be hers. But, Stock, would you still f*ck her and look down your nose at her?
Stockalone Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 SOME guys will take advantage of a gal with an emotional problem and use her for sex while looking down their noses at her. Yes, that is disgusting. What I meant is that there are many things we use to exclude people from our dating pool. We all do that. I don't see how one reason is better or worse than the other as long as there is no hypocrisy. And one of my dealbreakers is casual sex. I don't date women who are okay with casual sex. I am not going to apologize for that.
clv0116 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Would you commit to a club ho? Sure. Women do what they do for complex reasons and just because she's doing what she's doing now doesn't mean she's no good for something more serious. I would be on the watch for potential emotional issues though. But any woman can have those really.
boldjack Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Stock, I don't believe that you are a hypocrite, I think that you seem to be a straight arrow. I do think that your reasoning on this is skewed. If your "dealbreaker" is women, who have casual sex, then how do you get casual sex? Do you look for women who won't have CS and talk them into it, then dump them because they have violated your "dealbreaker?" WITH YOU? Or do you just NOT have casual sex, at all?
boldjack Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Donna, I have had LOTS of ONS, so how could I expect women to be different? If a Lady wants to be with me and I want to be with her, why look past that? The past is past and the future isn't here, If a Lady is giving me her body, and I look into her eyes and see desire, honesty, and caring, what more could I ask? For the NOW, she is mine and I am hers. Many people go thru their whole lives and never have moments like this. It's almost religious.:D
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