Girl can't say "I love you"

[kirk205]

I've been dating a girl for almost 2 month, she has been into me, telling me she really really likes me. I took her virginity 3 weeks ago, and we have been together during most of our free time and around 5 nights a week. She introduced me to her parents, then grandparents, and I have been invited to Easter dinner. She told me she is scared we are taking things too fast and at a different time she feels guilty she can't say it back. I told her this weekend and we have hung out constantly since, everything is going great. She is 29 and new to relationships, I don't want to push her into loving me, but it seems like she does. Has anyone ever been in this situation, and how long did it take for them to say it back? I feel like I put myself out there and am a little scared.

 

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[samiam143]

Been there. But I was HER in the situation. Don't push her or make her feel guilty. Be glad she isn't saying it so soon(yes 2 months is SOON). I had a bf who constantly said it but I couldn't because I simply wasn't ready. Sure I cared about him but I wasn't ready because the L word is sacred to women. We normally don't just hand out "i love you's" to anyone so I'll bet she's just being careful.

[kirk205]

thanks for the reply, I thought I might be rushing things, it just felt right. I don't get how she can say she feels like we are moving too fast, then introduce me to her grandparents at a nice dinner and joke around about how her grandfather is happy he might have great grand kids one day. I am totally mixed up.

[rlindzie]

to be honest most guys i have dated told me within the frist month. That was way too fast. now i think she is attatched to you and clearly loves to spend time with you. Just relax and let it happen. It will happen, i think that with a person new to relationships they tend to wait a long time bc they dont really know the diffrence between love and infactuation[dont know how to spell it ] so just let it happen keep things going the way they are and in a month or so i think she will say it.

 

good luck!

[DunnoWhat]

She's being cautious and she needs time to see if it's the real deal. She might love you but she wants to take it slower in case she gets her heart broken. She's right not to rush things. It just needs time I'd say.

 

I think my girlfriend loves me but has never said it because I've never said it to her. I don't really care though because I've learned that words are cheap and actions speak louder then words. Her actions tells me she loves me.