crisla Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 After we've met 2 weeks ago, we decided to became friends again. We have to do it because he doesn't want me to ignore him at work (we work at the same place and I work 4 days a week). I was fine with it and think that we will never be together anyway, so at least we can be friends. On Friday night last week at work, he said to me casually : "I love you" when I passed by him. I ignored him. On Saturday, he called me and I told him that he cannot say that words anymore. He told me that he cannot promise me because thats how he feels (??).. I said its hurting me.. and finally he said he will try not to say it.. He called me again in the afternoon (on break time) and I didn't answer, I just don't feel right to answer every calls he made. We still talk at work until Sunday night, still joked to each other... I want to stay friends with him but I don't want him to thinks that I'm still there for him while he is moving on ( he has a new girlfriend already, and obviously she is a rebound). Should I keep cool as a friend and answer his call everythime or should I just talk with him at work only? I still want him to call me but I know I will never move on if we still talk on the phone. But I don't want him to think I'm ignoring his calls either. I'm confused. Btw, he calls me alot, just wanted to say hi and ask what I'm doing or just calls me when he is bored. Help and thanks.
Hersheys Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 Stop taking his calls. He has a girlfriend already and you've taken the second fiddle place. No, you don't want to be friends with him, you want more. Stop being there for him. Since you two work together, treat him as any co-worker. Do you really like being that girl who's available everytime he's bored? No.
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