Joker77 Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 So some of you know my story. Girl of almost six months broke up with me via text message. I was upset and didn't know how long it would take me to rebound from it. She was two times divorced. At the time of the break, she told me she couldn't be in a relationship and that she didn't want to be with anyone else. Well, I just found out she's been dating a 42 year old man who is still currently married but in the process of getting a divorce. In the meantime, I have been going to the gym for the past four months since the break working on myself and trying to be the best I can be at work. Well I have met a nice 22 year old at the gym and we've been hanging out and it's been awesome. So for all of you who are hurting, there is hope. You just have to keep yourself busy and focus on other things. If I hadn't kept myself preoccupied with other things, I would have been dead in the water. So I guess I can thank the ex for putting me in the position I'm in now as messed up as that sounds.
Trialbyfire Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 'Grats Joker! Glad to hear you've found someone new and things are going well. It also sounds to me like you're better off without someone who's got so much baggage and can't commit. I do agree that there's hope for everyone. So get out there and have some fun!
thegoodlife Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 That's great to hear! There is always light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how badly you are hurting. I'm happy to hear how well you have pulled through. Congrats!
messed-mind Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 At the time of the break, she told me she couldn't be in a relationship and that she didn't want to be with anyone else. Well, I just found out she's been dating a 42 year old man who is still currently married but in the process of getting a divorce. On a side note (and this is directed at everyone on these forums), when you've broken up and the other party (usually the person that did the dumping) says "there is noone else"or "I don't want a relationship", I can guarantee you that there is most probably someone else . I've heard it and stories about it from people so many god damn times.
kizik Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 Joker, I am happy for you and jealous of you. I haven't met anyone in the last year. Treat this new one well (as I'm sure you do) and don't let her go. Use the lessons from the last one and you'll be fine. -kizik
Author Joker77 Posted March 24, 2009 Author Posted March 24, 2009 On a side note (and this is directed at everyone on these forums), when you've broken up and the other party (usually the person that did the dumping) says "there is noone else"or "I don't want a relationship", I can guarantee you that there is most probably someone else . I've heard it and stories about it from people so many god damn times. Couldn't agree more. It's a total coward's way out and a cop out. Doesn't matter now because I'm happy now and I'm glad she's not in my life anymore.
Author Joker77 Posted March 24, 2009 Author Posted March 24, 2009 Joker, I am happy for you and jealous of you. I haven't met anyone in the last year. Treat this new one well (as I'm sure you do) and don't let her go. Use the lessons from the last one and you'll be fine. -kizik Kizik, Thanks. I'm going to take this new situation with caution. I'm not in any rush but I know that I just want to have fun right now and not jump into anything. Keep yourself active and you will find someone.
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