callieleigh Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 okkk, so theres this guy. lets call him Slayde. well Slayde and i have been good friends for kind of a long time. i liked him a lot at first and he knows. he helped me through drama and sadness with a few guys. whenever i was dating someone we wouldnt talk much at first because i was scared that i had something good and that i would mess it up by still liking Slayde but then it was because he didnt want me talking to Slayde. well now that me and that guy are over for good (thank God! hes so not worth it) i still have these feelings for Slayde. even when i wasnt single and i really did and still do love that boyfriend finding out about Slayde messing with some girl made me really jelous. but i was so confused because i really was in love with the guy i was dating so why would i be feeling so angry and jelous? now we talk almost every day like we use to and im confused about the way i feel for him. i care about him a lot but im not sure how exactly. i dont know if i just want us to be friends or more. im so confusedd! i dont know if i should say something to him because im scared to have him say he only sees me as a friend and nothing more but it would hurt almost just as much if he felt the same way about me because we wouldnt be able to be more than friends rite now becase of the age difference. im so lost!!! what should i doooo?????????
Rose81 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 It sounds like you have your answer but you are letting your emotions get the best of you. If you don't think you can be with him romantically and having him in your life might upset your other relationships, maybe you should let the friendship go. He's a crutch. Good luck to you!
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