allieapplesauce Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 How long do you think or how long do you wait before you and your partner have sex? (And I'm talking about someone who's looking for a relationship or "the one"). Is there really any right length of time or does it depend on the relationship and how it is progressing? What's your take on the whole thing? What do you look for before you let it happen if you truly want it to go the distance? Guys POV; ladies POV???
Donovan Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 I think you should let it come naturally and not rush it. The closer the two of you get you will realize when the time is right. Having sex too soon in a relationship can ruin it in my opinion.
Beautiful Inside Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 girls opinion id say a month or so depends how long your known each other if you guys were friends first, do you guys hang out a lot?...i guess it all depends how close you guys are she might feel comfortable with you to do it asap....lol i know for me i wait until i know the guy isn't a player or isnt just waiting to get some and bounce....i want to know that theres going to be something more to come you know....
Author allieapplesauce Posted March 28, 2009 Author Posted March 28, 2009 well its been almost 2 months i've known him. he wants to have sex, but he's not being pushy or trying to get me to. I don't know what to do. im so scared it'll change things because he's important to me. he's the first real relationship that seems normal and hasn't started out as friends first so im not sure what hte norm is on how long people wait. and im a bit nervous all i hear is how guys lose interest after they get what they want and that they'll say anything and they'll wait it out as long as it takes. is that really true?
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