wooha Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 I ran into the ex Saturday night. It was not nice at first. Her friend later pulled me out of the crowd and insisted on talking. She said that EX misses me, crys all the time, and is sorry for what she did to me. I called bullsh*t, but she swore to it. I broke down and told her friend that I still was very much in love, and missed EX. After some time Ex walked up. We talked, hugged, kissed, and she swore she was sorry and that she hoped we could get it worked out one day. I have some things I need to handle, and so does she. I don't know what to think of this crap. She has hurt me so badly in the last 5 months. I called her today to suggest we talk about things with NO DRAMA. She did'nt answer, so I told her that in the message, and to call me back whenever. I just feel if she really cared, or missed me she would put forth a little effort? Maybe NC got to her and she wanted an ego-boost. Her friend swore up and down though, claimed she would tell the truth and would not have insisted on talking to me if it was a lie. WHY WHY WHY?
flash582 Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 because she just wanted to know that the door was still open if she wanted to use it. GO NC and stay that way
samspade Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 I called her today to suggest we talk about things with NO DRAMA. She did'nt answer, so I told her that in the message, and to call me back whenever. Big mistake. Just forget her.
kimbop Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 wooha, sorry to say but this gigantic world revolves solely around her and your feelings are as meaningless as the soiled sock in her hamper.
SummerSun Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 Hi Wooha, I'm sorry that everyone is so negative about your situation. Sometimes this can work out and there is nothing wrong with having hope - as long as you stay level headed and do not let that hope turn into false hope. I believe you have done the right thing in calling her to suggest talking - there is nothing wrong with that and from meeting her you have taken the most obvious and natural path. Now though, I would suggest you leave it. She has your message and the ball is now in her court - let her play it. If she does, meet her with an open mind and don't get sucked into mind games or doing anything that isn't in your best interests..... Stay strong and try not to worry or overanalyse.
Author wooha Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 Well, she did call back. We decided to meet for dinner this week but I left it up to her to decide when. We will see. I'm NOT gonna go stupid and fall for any crap. Preciate ya'lls responses. And thank you Summer. I'm not gonna let her pull a fast one (hopefully).
Author wooha Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 She called today. Small talk mostly. As I was trying to end the conversation she asked if I still wanted to meet up and talk still. I said "yeah i reckon", "when?". She said she was busy this week, but would call me next weekend. I just don't know people. Maybe she's just keeping her options open?
chrissreef Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 "Maybe she's just keeping her options open? " Yup! I'm getting the ring around the rosy thing too. Her last email had the word "friend" in it. She wants me around... and to bang the other guy. If things don't work out, I'm plan B. sad what the people we love do. It's probably just human nature, take care of ones self. A true man/woman's character comes out in times of ummmm, crap, I'm drawing a blank! lol
tc1968 Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 wooha...did she mean next weekend as in the next couple of days? I hate to say this but if she was crying and sobbing about missing you and now putting off the dinner for 10 days then she may not really be as depressed as she claimed. I hope it works out for you becuase I am going through some similiar stuff.
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