wooha Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 I ran into the ex Saturday night. It was not nice at first. Her friend later pulled me out of the crowd and insisted on talking. She said that EX misses me, crys all the time, and is sorry for what she did to me. I called bullsh*t, but she swore to it. I broke down and told her friend that I still was very much in love, and missed EX. After some time Ex walked up. We talked, hugged, kissed, and she swore she was sorry and that she hoped we could get it worked out one day. I have some things I need to handle, and so does she. I don't know what to think of this crap. She has hurt me so badly in the last 5 months. I called her today to suggest we talk about things with NO DRAMA. She did'nt answer, so I told her that in the message, and to call me back whenever. I just feel if she really cared, or missed me she would put forth a little effort? Maybe NC got to her and she wanted an ego-boost. Her friend swore up and down though, claimed she would tell the truth and would not have insisted on talking to me if it was a lie. WHY WHY WHY?
Beautiful Inside Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 hmmm it sounds like she does still love you how old are you guys by the way?
EmperorR Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 Don't listen to friend's. Look my ex best friend sentme a email how my ex says she still loves me so so much,and feels horrible for what she did. Ya it sounds nice but it didn't come out of her mouth, my ex never said crap to me except for hurtful things and never apologized to me and gave me the cold shoulder. Actions speak louder than words, if your ex really means it sh ewould show it in her actions, instead she is hesitant and giving you the cold shoulder.
carhill Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 Cooperative mind f*ck "One day"..... Did the hook taste good?
hopesndreams Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 WHY WHY WHY? Cause it gave them a laugh at your expense. Sorry.
chrissreef Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 my ex is the same... all happy/cheery in emails/texts and says she loves me... but in person, totally cold and no effort at all to mend things. move on
Author wooha Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 Well, she did call back. We decided to meet for dinner this week but I left it up to her to decide when. We will see. I'm NOT gonna go stupid and fall for any crap.
carhill Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 If there's a next time, you decide when and where. Take charge. Listen for what you want to hear from her regarding your circumstance then watch her actions to see if they match up. Anyone responding should read the OP's past threads, IMO. Whoha is right
socialight Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 >>Well, she did call back. We decided to meet for dinner this week but I left it up to her to decide when. We will see. I'm NOT gonna go stupid and fall for any crap. You already have, friend, you already have.
Author wooha Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 Preciate it car. Pardon me for asking though, what does op and imo mean?
carhill Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 OP = original post or original poster (that's you) IMO = in my opinion IME = in my experience Hope that helps!
AMM003 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I agree with the other posts. Take charge and make her prove it to you. I am not saying to be a d1ck about it, but if you listen to her words carefully, you will be able to tell. How is the statements she gives you worded? That'll tell you all you need to know.
Author wooha Posted March 25, 2009 Author Posted March 25, 2009 She called today. Small talk mostly. As I was trying to end the conversation she asked if I still wanted to meet up and talk still. I said "yeah i reckon", "when?". She said she was busy this week, but would call me next weekend. I just don't know people. Maybe she's just keeping her options open?
carhill Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 On the hook for another week. Hope the bait is tasty
Author wooha Posted March 26, 2009 Author Posted March 26, 2009 Haha, I hear ya Car. Nope, not stressing it. If she calls, she calls. If not-Fu*k her
LoveUrselfFirst Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 She called today. Small talk mostly. As I was trying to end the conversation she asked if I still wanted to meet up and talk still. I said "yeah i reckon", "when?". She said she was busy this week, but would call me next weekend. I just don't know people. Maybe she's just keeping her options open? If she really wanted to make it work or talk, she wouldnt be saying oh maybe next week or so forth and whatever she is doing this week, she can reschedule (unless it were life or death). Seems like she is trying to string you along. Don't fall for it. To me it's a mind f*ck that she is playing with you.
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