Prim&proper Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 I need some advice. Mostly from the guys, but girls feel free to chime me. I met this guy about 6 months ago in a bar, but I was in a relationship at the time so i tried to introduce him to my gf. They went on a couple of dates but it didn't work out. Last tues i texted him and he came out and met me for some drinks. For the next 3 days, we texted back and forth a lot every day and almost all day. I then saw him on Fri and we spent the whole night together. I told him I don't usually bring guys home and that I don't sleep with anyone unless I was exclusive. He spent the night but we didn't have sex, but the next morning things got hot and heavy and I wanted to. But he said we should wait. Since then I haven't heard from him. I texted him that same day and he replied the next day saying that he's going out of town and that I should have a good day. Is it strange that all of a sudden he stopped texting me? Did I blow it somehow?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 No, you didn't blow it... He just refrained from cheating on somebody.
Author Prim&proper Posted March 24, 2009 Author Posted March 24, 2009 No, you didn't blow it... He just refrained from cheating on somebody. You think he's in a relationship? I don't think he is.
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 24, 2009 Posted March 24, 2009 You think he's in a relationship? I don't think he is. You didn't make it really clear that YOU aren't in a relationship anymore. You said you had been dating somebody - what happened to that? But anyway - I think that he saw you were willing to compromise your own moral code about not sleeping with somebody unless you're exclusive and it probably turned him off.
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