jade0101 Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 I'll get right to the point. I'm gay and I've been chatting online with this guy who lives in California. I live in Canada. He is a recording artist in a boyband. I am a Web Developer doing singing/songwriting as a side project. So we have lots in common. He's also quite cute and funny so we have good chemistry. That said, there is a problem. He sucks at communication. For instance he will tell me he wants to chat daily over WebCamera so I wait for him and he never shows. I'll send him a voicemail or an email and not hear back from him 4-5 days at a time. I don't know what to make of that. I start to question if he actually likes me or not or if I even matter to him. We've known each other for a year. Sometimes I wonder if he is just baiting me along because I'm a pretty boy and he wants me only for sexual reasons. Part of me thinks that things will be diffrent once we meet and spend time together in real life. But do you think I'm kidding myself? When I talked to friends of his they tell me hes always like this. I feel like it would be stupid of me to let a catch like him "get away" ... but at the same time I question if I can handle not communicating at all when we are apart. I booked a flight to be with him for 9 days starting April 10th (relatively soon) and I don't know if it would be prudent to cancel or not. Thoughts?
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