ruggy Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 Alright. So most people know my adventurous follies in Date World, and lack there of true success. Met this other match, yes online. She actually contacted me before I contacted her. Put her on the back burner for a week or so to figure out the current datee was wasting each others time. So, surprisingly, she is still talking to me. Spoke once online and once on the cell. Does anyone have home phones anymore? Anyway, she was laughing and saying she could stay on the phone for hours with me, but had to get up in the morning. Texted me today to change the first meet as a drink to dinner mid-week. She does an awful lot of texting. That was what killed the dating in December and January with that disaster of a handful of dates. So, we are meeting near her apt for Chinese food instead of a drink. Any tips? Been batting pretty low her, so need some real help here. We have a few things in common, we both like to cook, both teachers, both Italian. Thinking of being a bit more aggressive. Maybe shoot for the kiss at the end of the first date. And I have her surname. LOL.
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 Sounds like you guys have been hitting it off. I hope things turn out better this time, Ruggy. And I wouldn't plan on a kiss until you see how the date goes. Instead of aggressive, I'd say assertive.
Author ruggy Posted March 23, 2009 Author Posted March 23, 2009 Hi Soul, I think it will go well. We seemed to hit it off enough on the phone to change from a drink to dinner. Well, I suggested it, she accepted it. Though, a lot of texting. Not sure if that is a good sign. The datee before this one did only texting and that took me to two months of no where. What do should I look for at the end of the date to see if I should go in for a kiss?
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 Well, you can do some physical contact way before the kiss and see how she responds to that. Like touching the small of her back leading her into a room, possibly holding hands when walking outside or offering her your arm. It just depends on how the conversation is going and if she seems to be responding well to the very light physical touching.
Author ruggy Posted March 23, 2009 Author Posted March 23, 2009 Maybe. I did that with the last one, and it did not end up well; even though we were holding hands and such. I get matched with all the great women in NYC. I tell ya. Could it get any worse? LOL
samiam143 Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 I agree with Soul, try other contact first before going in for the kiss. I would be freaked out if a guy tried to kiss me out of nowhere at the end of a date. If she reacts well to a handhold or something, then go for the kiss. Don't spring that **** on her out of nowhere. That's a good way to get popped in the face
Author ruggy Posted March 23, 2009 Author Posted March 23, 2009 I guess I was going to see how it is after the hug and how close our faces are. Is she's pretty close, I would think it would be a good sign. She's a pretty aggressive woman, it seems. Not sure holding hands may be her thing. Think Kim Cattrall on Sex on the City, but nice like Kristen Davis.
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