boxing123 Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Maybe she was busted for prostitution and her name was posted on the internet. Or something similar.
Author ruggy Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 We've not met up yet. Just speak every day. She has exam finals for her Masters for the last two weeks and she's studying. I can verify this as when she called me on both Friday and Saturday night from home when I was at, well the club. LOL. I am certainly not standing still, but i do not want to kick her to the curb. Something I can regret later. If she does come over, and we will talk about it. If she still will not give the information up, then is probably time to move on... No bells and whistles yet...
boxing123 Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I googled a woman from Plenty of fish and she was busted for prostitution at a massage parlor, so I thought of that. She was also mid 30's, and lived with parents.Maybe she is just paranoid, or thinks you would be a stalker, who knows.
pollywag Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I googled a woman from Plenty of fish Well there's your problem right there....you are meeting women on skid row. But your example was a good one I never thought of that.
Author ruggy Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 Guess beggars can be choosers, right Box. You shoot for bottom barrel and that is what you get. A prostitute going to Columbia. Doubtful
boxing123 Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 Well she is afraid of you for some reason then, who knows,,
Author ruggy Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 How so? She's coming to my home and is afraid if me?
moman Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 How so? She's coming to my home and is afraid if me? Hold on, the bigger problem is that you all are 'seeing each other' yet you don't know her info, and worse, you haven't yet kissed her or that stuff. BIG RED FLAG
Author ruggy Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 Only saw her twice, but talk all the time. She said she'd give it to me in person. I usually go in for the kiss on the third date. Invite to home on forth or fifth. I guess jumping around. She said seeing, I did not. I just said I see. Nothing exclusive.
mr.dream merchant Posted April 2, 2009 Posted April 2, 2009 I'd be too worried about her runnin up in my crib with 12 goons and stickin me up for my loot.
Author ruggy Posted April 2, 2009 Author Posted April 2, 2009 Doubtful. I live across from a police station. Also have one shot gun, 9mm and rifle.
Author ruggy Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 Met her for dinner. We talked and she told me the reason why she is so secret is she had problems with dudes in the past. I guess her reactions are understandable then.
moman Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Met her for dinner. We talked and she told me the reason why she is so secret is she had problems with dudes in the past. I guess her reactions are understandable then. What kind of dudes has she been dating? I can't imagine any guy worth himself would waste time chasing a woman who has told him not to, to the point of being considered a stalker. Big warning sign there, bro.
Author ruggy Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 I assume a problem in terms of physical/battery. Just because she is cautious does not mean she bad or anything. She is still a person and should be treated as one.
boxing123 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Met her for dinner. We talked and she told me the reason why she is so secret is she had problems with dudes in the past. I guess her reactions are understandable then. How do I make no sense? That is exactly what I said. She said "I had problems with dudes in the past" Translation: "You might also be a problem" What I said "She thinks you might be a stalker" You might be a problem.
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 What kind of dudes has she been dating? I can't imagine any guy worth himself would waste time chasing a woman who has told him not to, to the point of being considered a stalker. Big warning sign there, bro. Agreed that no decent man would do it - but they DO exist. Just check out the guy "one goal" on this forum. He's freaking scary.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Well there's your problem right there....you are meeting women on skid row. But your example was a good one I never thought of that. OMG lol pollywag I was on that site for a grand total of 1 day until I figured that out haven't been back since very low class of Internet there it seamed.. Okies moving on.. Ruggy this chick is weird you sure you even want her at your place? what kinda women tells friends shes dating a man she hasn't even given her address or last name too. I dunno something smells fruity in the booty remember women can turn psycho stalker too be careful with this one! What ever happened to the Chinese food date if I remember right was that you?
Author ruggy Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 It was OK. She does not like talking on phones and only texts instead. Something weird about that to me. I meet all the best women...
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