Author heartoutside Posted March 26, 2009 Author Posted March 26, 2009 Well, she never looks away when we kiss. But of the 4 or 5 real dates we've been on (the rest of the time it was just hanging out, not a date per say), all have been my idea or my asking. Which is fine. She actually kind of asked me to a concert this weekend which is the first thing she's invited me too. But it just might have been because while we were at breakfast she ran into an old highschool friend who is having the concert this weekend and he told her to come. So as we were leaving she said, "well if you really want to see the south side of the city you should come to this concert." I would assume she's happy to hear from me when I call. She always calls back, but she's wicked busy. But for example, I'm out of town, left yesterday after she and I went out to breakfast.....while on the road last night I sent her a text and we texted back and forth for a little, but then she just stopped reply'n....I'm still out of town, and haven't had a chance to text her or call her all day, and it's kind of late now to do so.....but haven't heard a word from her at all. And I'm not saying we should always be in touch, cuz it's a new relationship and still fresh. But sometimes it does seem like I'm doing all the contacting. But I've been to the point with her. She knows where I stand. A few weeks back, I told her straight that I like her, and that I enjoy spending time with her and she said that she wouldn't be hanging out with me if she didn't feel the same. So.....?
Author heartoutside Posted March 28, 2009 Author Posted March 28, 2009 So here's an example of why i'm uncertainty about this situation sometimes. So as I'm driving home from being out of town, I text this girl I'm seeing. We end up texting back and forth, I throw in a few flirty comments here and there. She finally says she needs to get some sleep, so I say goodnight. About 40 mins later she calls and we talk for a few mins but then my service goes out and the call cuts out. It's late so I just leave it at that and don't try and call back. I send her a text though saying that I'm in the midddle of now where and I have spotty service I don't get a reply, but most likely because she's asleep. The next day, in the afternoon I give her a call to finish our conversation and see how she's doing. But I get her VM so I leave a nice messege. I don't hear a word from her all night. So I go out to my buddies bar and there happens to be a mutual friend of both mine and the girl I"m seeing at the bar. As soon as I walk in he asks me where she is, and I say I have no idea!? He then tells me that he just sent her a text before I walked in saying she should join him for a drink (he's gay by the way) at the bar. A little while later she replies, that she wish she knew ahead of time and something else. But it just seems odd that she would reply to the text and not give me a call back or a text back saying she couldn't call......doesn't it? This is why I'm uncertain about things. If she were interested she would make a greater effort I think. Then there's the fact that at least 3 people last night asked me "where my girl was" and I couldn't answer because one, I don't even know where we stand in our relationship and two, I really didn't know what she was doing.
Author heartoutside Posted March 28, 2009 Author Posted March 28, 2009 I"m wondering if I've just been out of the dating scene for too long!?
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