loveslife Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 I'm really curious what goals there are for men for affection in dating relationships. Apart from the obvious of wanting to get in the gal's pants, if a guy really likes a girl and wants to get to know her for potential long-term how do they gauge that it's going well physically? Is it so long as the physical contact builds, gets more intimate? Thanks.
voldigicam Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 Increasing electrical compatibility. Just that click generally gets better and better. Sex may go up and down, not happen, whatever. But that connection builds. In a dating thing? I'd probably go slow now. Not worry about the physical. I like snuggling - no snuggle, I'm probably not there after 3 dates. Good snuggle, I'd be patient. Never know what happened with someone in the past. Patience, comfort, caring. Sex will come if it's going to.
You'reasian Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 I'm really curious what goals there are for men for affection in dating relationships. Apart from the obvious of wanting to get in the gal's pants, if a guy really likes a girl and wants to get to know her for potential long-term how do they gauge that it's going well physically? Is it so long as the physical contact builds, gets more intimate? Thanks. It just depends on the guy. There's no checklist of goals - atleast not for me. I'm naturally affectionate, playful and teasing with my gfs; most gfs seem to really enjoy it - so its a good thing.
Author loveslife Posted March 23, 2009 Author Posted March 23, 2009 I like what you said about the electricity compatibility build. Hadn't thought of that before. It really is a good indicator. I read someplace that guys want there to be progress on the physical level, or a progression, for them to feel it's going in the right direction.
ruggy Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 It just depends on the guy. There's no checklist of goals - atleast not for me. I'm naturally affectionate, playful and teasing with my gfs; most gfs seem to really enjoy it - so its a good thing. Teasing in what way? What are the good teases they like?
IcemanJB Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 One thing I did to the last one was as we were kissing, I'd slowly pull away in the middle of it just to tease her, and it drove her CRAZY. While cuddling I'd hug her just a little too tightly. I'd just do little things that I knew magnified that spark. So if the guy you're with does these sort of things, he's really into you. If she responds to the little things I do to tease her, I know it's going well.
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