Author samjohn Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 I appreciate all your insight! And I LOVE the honesty!! We've still been texting, but it's been more of a friend thing, stuff that that I would text with a friend, and that I've been telling my husband and his wife about. One night I forgot to let him know that we had gotten home after leaving his house, he later asked if I was mad. I wasn't, I asked why, he said because he was really worried about me when he didn't hear from me. Why would he worry about me?? BUT, I still love to hear from him and don't like it when I don't. What is wrong with me?! I know it's wrong!
whichwayisup Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 STOP TEXTING HIM! You two do NOT have an innocent and platonic friendship. YOU are getting something out of it and that isn't fair to your husband. You two are emotionally attached, and it has to end. You know it's wrong, so DO something about it! End it...Stop being selfish and think of your husband's feelings. Sorry to be harsh but you need to see what your choices are doing to your spouse.
blueintheface Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 i think S will keep treating you like a queen until he gets into your pants. And then he will lose respect for you because then you're just another cheating wife. He's not nice to a lot of people (people who work for/with him). And he does get a little rude with his wife, and I've told him that was really not a good way to make things better. But he treats me very nice, and even my husband said he treats me like a queen and everyone else not even close. ok, i know your ego is being stroked and it feels really nice but you have to realise he doesn't treat you nicely because you're special. he wants something from you. he gets a little rude with his wife in public, when they are home alone together he is no longer on his best behaviour. what happens when you're no longer on a pedestal? what happens if you have an affair and try to break it off? he will rub it in your husband's face because quite frankly he's not very nice. BUT, I still love to hear from him and don't like it when I don't. What is wrong with me?! I know it's wrong! ego stroke. happens to the best of us. One night I forgot to let him know that we had gotten home after leaving his house, you're kidding right? do you text all your friends about this or just him? seriously, he's not just a friend. you're already in too deep which means he is no longer just a friend. quit being friends with him. the guy is toxic. kind of like cancer with his insidious onset.
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