gavinus Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 Short story: My ex dumped me. She had/has anger issues which she blamed me for and took out on me. I have been single 7 weeks now, NC 3 weeks. At points in our 3 year relationship, I told her her anger was not acceptable and I did not want kids with her because of it. She then blamed me for all her issues and dumped me. After 7 weeks I now firmly believe I was not the cause of her anger etc I was the victim of it. Because I was a victim of it, I became withdrawn, not happy, etc but I still supported her and that is one of the reasons she left me as well as she said she wants a happier guy. How can I let this go? I told her, her anger is her own a few months back. I have tried so hard to be there and help her change over the last 3 years. How can I convince someone of something they admit one day, then the next day don't? She said in the past if any ex did not like her anger, she just moved on. I feel hurt that she blames me for her issues unjustly and never wants to see me again because of it. I want to email her and tell his this but I don't want to contact her as it has been 3 weeks NC and every time I have any small contact I end up upset and a wreak for days and she's ok. I feel guilt, as I have failed. I need to let this go as I am not moving on with my life, any advice is good
Melocoton Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 You said it yourself.. if you have contact you are a wreck for days and she is fine. Do yourself a favor and let her go. You know she is not good for you and you have nothing to gain by contacting her.
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