Brady_to_Moss Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 I am trying to see when i go out and about if i can tell if a girl my age or even in their late 20's is single but its tough to tell without talking to them unless you see them with a guy. Are most of them in relationships or no?
WorriedOne Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Impossible to tell. Learn to look for wedding rings. Watch and see if the woman is looking around the room at other men or if she is engrossed in conversation with her girlfriends. Picking up girls in public is impossible, I much prefer Match.com
Isolde Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 22, single, most of my friends are in relationships but it's worth trying because you better bet the single girls are wondering where all the single guys are, too. Singledom has nothing to do with age really, especially nowadays, so don't make any assumptions whether she's 20, 25, or 30.
Jersey Shortie Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 Of course..if she is 30, might as well take her out back and beat her with a stick because most guys around here don't think she is deserving of things they themselves want way after 40.
OpenBook Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 Of course..if she is 30, might as well take her out back and beat her with a stick because most guys around here don't think she is deserving of things they themselves want way after 40. Jersey, I'm going to tell you a little secret... [OpenBook leans in and delivers a Jon Stewart whisper]: <<<It's not up to them.>>> :bunny:
somedude81 Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 I would say that 99% of women 18+ are in some sort of relationship. She's either somebodies girlfriend, dating or "talking" to some dude. Women don't like to be alone and since what they have between their legs is apparently a scarce resource they can basically get a guy whenever they want. In all honesty there are only 3 reasons why a girl is single. 1. She doesn't want to commit to anybody and rather have fun. 2. None of the guys who like her meet her ridiculous standards (even though they might be great guys) so she chooses to be single. 3. She is so fat and or ugly that guys simply aren't into her. Numbers 1 & 2 are her choice and 3 can be fixed if she really wants to change.
kashmir Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 I would say that 99% of women 18+ are in some sort of relationship. She's either somebodies girlfriend, dating or "talking" to some dude. Women don't like to be alone and since what they have between their legs is apparently a scarce resource they can basically get a guy whenever they want. In all honesty there are only 3 reasons why a girl is single. 1. She doesn't want to commit to anybody and rather have fun. 2. None of the guys who like her meet her ridiculous standards (even though they might be great guys) so she chooses to be single. 3. She is so fat and or ugly that guys simply aren't into her. Numbers 1 & 2 are her choice and 3 can be fixed if she really wants to change. Very true. I've learned that no girl is truly single. Every girl has some sort of boyfriend. You can't let that deter you from pursuing them. Relationships in the younger range are so fragile and worthless that they shouldn't even be acknowledged.
Els Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 Not true. I've a lot of friends around my age who are average-looking, nice, fun girls to be with. However, since they're more of the quiet, studious type, they're usually overlooked. Then again, in my society few girls put out anyway, so I suppose the resource between the legs thing isn't very applicable.
Scarlett513 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 I'm 24 and single...about half my friends are married or in relationships and the other half aren't. Your best bet is just to approach a group of girls....at least a few of them are bound to be single =) To respond to somedude81, I think in some ways you're right about your reasons that a girl is single, but I have the disagree that they're the ONLY reasons. Personally, I'd like to find someone but until I meet the guy that makes me *want* to commit, I'll be having fun doing my own thing. It's about finding the right guy (or girl), not just finding someone for the sake of being in a relationship.
boxing123 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Really, if I find out a girl has a boyfriend it means almost nothing at all to me. As others have said, almost every girl is either dating someone, has a FWB, is sleeping with an ex,is looking to leave a relationship, is infatuated with someone, etc.
Jersey Shortie Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Jersey, I'm going to tell you a little secret... [OpenBook leans in and delivers a Jon Stewart whisper]: <<<It's not up to them.>>> Well, it's partly up to them.
kashmir Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Really, if I find out a girl has a boyfriend it means almost nothing at all to me. As others have said, almost every girl is either dating someone, has a FWB, is sleeping with an ex,is looking to leave a relationship, is infatuated with someone, etc. Yeah, I've known only a handful of girls who actually had to put in some effort into finding a guy, and it was due to something appearance-wise. Every other girl can just go out one day and without effort find a decent boyfriend, or at least a guy to have sex with. Girls constantly have several guys in their life, whether they're crushes, boyfriends, ex's, or guys that are interested in the girl. You'll never run into a girl who is genuinely inexperienced with guys. She'll think she knows you and any other guy before ever laying eyes on you. For the guy, it's just a matter of showing her that he should be the one she wants in her life instead of the countless other guys. I've yet to figure out how to do that.
nothappyjan Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 There are exceptions to every rule and I think I am the exception, I've never had lots of guys on the go or always been approached. I am good looking and just due to being in female dominated interests and career dont have the chance to meet men and have never had any luck meeting men out and about because myself and my friends are never approached by decent guys only guys out to get all our numbers who want sex. So if you are a nice decent guy, just give it a shot talking to a girl or group of girls you are attracted to.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 How about being the taken guy with chicks after you? Sheesh what a hard life.
clv0116 Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 It's a way to let you down easy. She's not interested.
nothappyjan Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 Yeah, I've known only a handful of girls who actually had to put in some effort into finding a guy, and it was due to something appearance-wise. Every other girl can just go out one day and without effort find a decent boyfriend, or at least a guy to have sex with. Girls constantly have several guys in their life, whether they're crushes, boyfriends, ex's, or guys that are interested in the girl. You'll never run into a girl who is genuinely inexperienced with guys. She'll think she knows you and any other guy before ever laying eyes on you. For the guy, it's just a matter of showing her that he should be the one she wants in her life instead of the countless other guys. I've yet to figure out how to do that. This quote so made me laugh, i am genuinely inexperienced with guys yet every guy I meet says I am gorgeous and must have guys chasing after me and dont believe me. And i love the fact that i can just go out one day and come home with a bf (what a laugh) i am 23 and have never even come home with a coffee date so i dont know where the bf part comes from. I have been finally seeing a guy for 3 months and he wont even contact me and refuses to make our r/ship in anyway official so i have to disagree with ur quote there!
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