No more HANG OUT MOMENTS?

[applebeespepsi]

I'm going through a similar situation as MMnBB.... and yeah it pretty much blows to have someone close switch personalities on you OVER NIGHT

-in my situation my "close friend would switch personalities over night"

After a year of allowing this, i confronted them and explained that it's draining me... and that I'm tired of not knowing which personality i would face from day to day... i went on to explain that if it continues PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM ME... (believe me it was a huge risk to say this but i said what hell...)

My friend actually apologized and talked with me for over an hour that day..

__ things actually seemed better .... the smiles the stopping by each others table in the library etc etc BUT GET THIS... I NOTICED THAT WE Haven't HUNG OUT SINCE THE CONFRONTATION

(as in going out to eat gym etc)

whenever i suggested a hang out moment they would say OK but cancel at the last minute or pretend to all of a sudden become busy....

SO AGAIN OUR HANGOUT MOMENTS, since my friend gave me an hour long apology, is zero.. we don't hang out anymore IN SPITE OF MY INVITES AND REQUESTS...

-and yeah it hurts a bit because this is a Friend that was from a different culture and freely stated things such as "I love you, you're so special, you're a blessing to be friends with, I could travel galaxies with you without turning back" hahahahahaa laugh it up lol

so i miss those moments .. for Pete's sakes i can only get my same age relatives or significant other to say I love you maybe once a year LOL

So to have a friend say this routinely was pretty funny to me but deep down it was special

- I'm a human so of course i miss that part of our bond... and I have no idea how to stitch it back together

but I'm saying all of this to let you know.. you're not the only one alright?

[Not the love ace]

Huh.......?

[applebeespepsi]

[sIZE=5][COLOR=#990000]Not the love ace[/COLOR][/sIZE] if you didn't get it ... that pretty much means that it wasn't meant for you