whambar Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 If you read my other posts on here you'll see that I've been in a LDR with a woman I loved who out of the blue told me she needs to be on her own. My question is this...would visiting her be a good idea? Prior to her little speech about needing space and not being ready to trust or love again I bought a ticket to go to see her on 28 March. I would like to meet with her to show her what an amazing guy I am and what she is missing out on. It will have been two weeks No Contact by the time that comes around. Obviously I will need to let her know I am coming over. Also what does everyone think of the 'I need space' excuse? Is it just a nice way of letting me down gently? She tells me she has fallen for me as I did for her and I just don't get why she would want to give it up. I need her to look me in the eye and tell me this is over.
RedRussian Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Hey buddy! I hear what you are saying and here is my advice. So not go to her, wait for her to be ready...otherwise you will just push her away more...trust me..aspecially if she is around 30 years old. I have similar situation...the woman I wanted to be with told me she is not ready for a comitted relationship...bluh bluh bluh...but that means not with me...and thats fine....i did mistakes by moving too fast...like really not how i should of played it..but I was sooo in love i could not resist...she was first girl i fell in love with when I was 5 or 6 years old.....29 now So..just wait man...or call her but don't say you got tickets or plan to visit...hint on seeing her maybe..and if she is not responsive...that you got your clue...you can always just ask straight up....so you got at least these 3 options...but whatever you do...don't push her if she is not ready...women are fregile creatures...most of them ..not all I know! =) Good luck bro..and stay strong!
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