How do you make friends with a girl without any introductions

[eBaum]

I don't know how to meet a girl without the school making activities for us since ours is an all boy school ( and I feel that most girls judge a guy by his looks.

I also don't know what a girl likes to hear in a conversation and what kind of guys they like since I know that all beautiful girls like handsome guys and they almost never go for a person who is not heart rob...

[Je suis étudiant.]

Local chatrooms. Myspace. Facebook. A little talking here, and a little talking there and you just say, "Hey, you know, we should hang out. No expectations. No regrets." and you'll, at the very least, start networking.

[famke]

You sound like a really nice guy. ( I would like to meet you, but unfortainly I live in the netherlands )

anyway: I think you have to take some actions yourself. if you're old enough; go out with friends and try to meet girls. or else: just try to get in touch with girls. try some flirting, and see how girls react. Its sound like you don't have a high standard of yourself. try to get more selfconfidence. the next time you walk down the street and you see a girl (don't chose a snob) just say hi to her and smile. you think that pretty girls only like handsome guys but that's really not true. some do think that looks matter, but you don't want those girls in the first place, do you?

[EllieBean]

Girls do NOT always judge a guy by his looks. Usually they like guys with confidence and charisma, someone who makes them laugh and is fun to be around, someone who makes them feel special and beautiful. If someone isn't a nice person then I won't be attracted to him no matter what he looks like.

 

If you meet a girl you like the look of, introduce yourself! Be casual and confident, ask her name and where she's from, ask her if she likes a particular kind of music or enquire about what hobbies she has, crack a few jokes, the same as you would if you met a guy who you wanted to be buddies with. In other words, express an interest in her as a person - everyone loves to talk about themselves! Drop her a few compliments, flatter her and make her feel beautiful - tell her she looks really pretty when she smiles, or that you like her dress and it really suits her. Aim to make friends and get to know her, and if she ends up dating you that's a bonus!