My ex and I broke up last weekend-we were at least civil-then what happened?

[pittguy578]

Here is the situation. I was friends with a girl since June..we started dating end of October/beginning of November. We then became official in January. I had been going through some depression/sleep issues the last couple of months..I was not myself. The relationship broke up last weekend probably for a couple of reasons. None of them were related to anything major such as abuse or cheating or fighting. We actually NEVER fought. She acknowledged I treated her well and respected her and was sweet to her. We had not spoken on the phone since the breakup..simply through e-mail. I want to add the break-up was all of a sudden. She was supposed to meet my dad the last Sunday.

 

We had been e-mailing each other back and forth this week, and she provided guidance about the breakup. Obviously I wanted to know what I did wrong. I knew some of the things. However, one thing did not make any sense to me or any other people I have spoken to, but that is neither here nor there.

 

Today I got a weird message from her saying she was going back to her hometown, and I could pick up my stuff on her porch after work. I called her back..she didn't pick up..went into her voicemail. I left a nice message saying I was not in the city today (I had taken the day off), and maybe she could leave my stuff on the porch next week when I am back in the city.

 

I then got an e-mail saying she was leaving and leaving it on the porch. She also said she assumed if it was still there, she would assume I didn't want it. She also told me to not call her or text her anymore.????????

I was going to give her space. I was not overly concerned about my stuff being there. I didn't think she would be the kind of person to pull something like this. I did not DO anything bad since our last exchange..as I said, there was no bad blood between us. We never really fought. No one cheated. It just ran it's course.

 

Why would she start to be so mean all of a sudden? I could see if she had been a "bitch" to me since last week WHEN she broke up with me, but something is very strange here.

[chrissreef]

I say

 

- she's with someone else

 

- she wants to move on ASAP and not deal with the situation or even have a discussion on the topic. Basically out of sight, out of mind and moving along.

 

my ex became very cold too overnight without even a recent arguement. I can "only" send her emails and she'll respond "if" there's something she actually needs to respond to. Mine involved infidelity.

 

$.02 good luck!

 

anyone else have thoughts?