samsungxoxo Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Ok now cheating in my opinion shouldn't have that much affect because afterall there are many other worst stuff that can happen to you other than cheating. So basically I only have one simple rule I just came up with and yes I would dump a guy that cheated but first I would do go on with the plan on pretending I'm a second chance giver, do the same thing he did and then be like ¨Oh guess what, I also cheated on you, ok later jerk. ¨ Basically you cheat on me and I will cheat back at you. Treat me like dirt and I will treat you the same way.
Mr. Lucky Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 If you're dumping him because cheating is the wrong thing to do, then how does cheating on your part balance the scales? Mr. Lucky
era Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Basically you cheat on me and I will cheat back at you. Treat me like dirt and I will treat you the same way. You sound calculating, mean spirited. It's a waste of energy, really....
Author samsungxoxo Posted March 21, 2009 Author Posted March 21, 2009 You sound calculating, mean spirited. It's a waste of energy, really.... No that's just me pointing out at them on how you never do what you would not want others doing to you. If someone treats you like dirt then they should get the same treatment in return. Only be nice to these that are nice to you and respect you.
hurt4life Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 No that's just me pointing out at them on how you never do what you would not want others doing to you. You confuse me now. You say don't do what you don't want done to yourself. So by cheating on him then dumping him, you're saying it's okay for a guy to do this to you? Cheating may not be the worst thing in the world but it is one of the most hurtful things to go through. There is no reason for cheating. If a relationship has gone bad, just leave instead of cheating.
Author samsungxoxo Posted March 21, 2009 Author Posted March 21, 2009 You confuse me now. You say don't do what you don't want done to yourself. So by cheating on him then dumping him, you're saying it's okay for a guy to do this to you? No that would be me teaching them a lesson on not to ever cheat, not to treat others like crap if they don't want to be treated like that too in return.
era Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 No that's just me pointing out at them on how you never do what you would not want others doing to you. If someone treats you like dirt then they should get the same treatment in return. Geez, there must be a better way though. How about after you end the relationship (because of his cheating), and later he finds out how very happy you are in your new life. Living well is the best revenge..er oh, is it looking good is the best revenge - I can't remember, but you know what I mean.
hurt4life Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 No that would be me teaching them a lesson on not to ever cheat, not to treat others like crap if they don't want to be treated like that too in return. But what makes you think that it makes it right, by getting revenge, or giving them a taste of their own medicine? If they cheated on you, then they didn't deserve to have a good person like you. Just dump him and move on. If doing what you say makes you happy or takes away the pain of someone cheating on you then yes go right ahead.
D-Lish Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 No that would be me teaching them a lesson on not to ever cheat, not to treat others like crap if they don't want to be treated like that too in return. That's not teaching anyone a lesson- that's just inviting more negativity and subsequent consequences into your own life. They cheat on you- they do have a consequence, they LOSE YOU! That's the lesson. Why lower yourself to committing the same act out of spite and revenge? You're better off walking away and leaving the loser behind instead of deliberately acting like a loser yourself.
Brady_to_Moss Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 You would really lower yourself to that level just to teach him a lesson? WOW....good quality to have.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Ok now cheating in my opinion shouldn't have that much affect because afterall there are many other worst stuff that can happen to you other than cheating. . Why go tho all the effort if it doesn't have that much affect in the 1st place? just end it like a reasonable adult...
Trialbyfire Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Revenge cheating makes no sense. I don't particularly care what you do to a cheater, after you've caught them but why would you ever want to cheat? There's nothing lower than cheating in a relationship, IMO.
Woggle Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Why not just dump them? Cheating on them won't make any difference and it won't teach them a lesson at all. The universe has a way of taking care of people who do you wrong so just leave them and move on with your life.
samspade Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 How about not stooping to his level and being the better person? Revenge schemes are for chumps and losers who take cheating as a personal mark against them. It's not a blemish on YOUR record if someone else cheats - it's on them. Walking away and not looking back is the only way to come out ahead. They cheat on you- they do have a consequence, they LOSE YOU! That's the lesson. Bingo.
whichwayisup Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Difference is, he cheated on you SELFISHLY and you'll be cheating on him INTENTIONALLY. Yes, both reasons to choose to cheat are cruel, but YOUR reason to cheat is worse. Best revenge is to cut him out of your life and never see/speak to him again. Why bother playing a stupid game with him? DUMP him and move on.
Dexter Morgan Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 I won't cheat no matter what the circumstance. If so, I am no better than the cheater. And I wouldn't expect any woman to want to be with me if they found out I cheated on someone, even in revenge.
bean1 Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 The whole idea disregards the fact that the person may have cheated because they just don't really care that much about you or the relationship? It is a mistake to assume that cheating on a cheater and dumping them will make them hurt (and repent for their sins? Hah....), perhaps you would just come out as the bitter fool. Maybe they just don't feel like doing the dumping? Something to keep in mind.
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