Fiaman Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 Long story short Basically she left me for another guy, still gave me false hopes after that. I initiated NC in January, got a text at the end of February from her basically saying "I realized how ****ty of a G/f and friend I was too you." I texted back saying I couldnt trust what she was saying. Ends up that night, her friend who has a thing with my friend wanted to hang out and after a weird night my friend, another girl, my ex and I end up at my ex's new boyfriends house (he was out of town) and hung out and watched TV. That night I was cooler than the other side of the pillow. Acted like **** didnt phase me, barely paid her any attention and she was acting all weird, I could tell it hurt her to see "I was over her" which in fact I wasn't. I was doing better like I am now but you just get set back every once in a while. Now I just feel that her false hopes she left me are just eating away at me. I'm fine and everything, its just a crappy situation to be in. I thought by now I'd be fully over her. I really realized how crappy of a person she is and all the lies she has told now that I am not "blinded." Also, my life has been better without her, I dont feel like she's holding me back anymore from what I wanna do but it just... I dont know... For the record, I havent seen or talked to her since the ex-bf house night any input will help
gavinus Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 If you had the met the woman of you dreams, you would not be posting here. You admitted you are better off without her, she has not changed! She came to you because she knew you liked her. This is all about her getting her needs met! Stay strong!! the partner of your dreams could be around the corner, but if you get back with your ex, you will never see the person you are meant to be with
Author Fiaman Posted March 20, 2009 Author Posted March 20, 2009 It's not about me getting back with her, she has a new guy who she's in love with. She just feels that its ok to keep hanging out with ex's and be freinds with them because "she was taught to be friends with everyone" which is complete BS. She's just immature.
gavinus Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 well then initiate NC and move on to better and brighter things
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