lassie Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 Ok here's my dilema. I think my g/f may be cheating and this is what i know so for. 1) She has admitted to texting another guy and talking risque or sexy dirty talk. 2) She is very protective of her cell phone i have picked it up on occasions not to be nosey just to look and see waht kind it was. And she would litterally wrestle me for it so i couldnt see it. 3) She will somtimes send me sexy pics via cell phone. I have noticed when she sends them to me that sometimes in the subject line it says "none" but on some occasions it says "fwd". I have been cheated on before after a long marriage. So maybe i have trust issues. Ive dated other woman and never had this gut feeling as i have in the past bt with this one i do. She tells me love me. she tells me how great i am in bed etc etc So what do you think.
lostsunsets Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Shes playing you. No doubt. Just tell her that she is to secretive with you and that you wanted a more open and honest relationship. Then dump her. Unless your comfortable in the stable with the other horses.
Bryanp Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 You judge a person by their actions and not by their words and her actions are saying a great deal. If the roles were reversed, do you honestly think she would put up with such disrespectful from you. I am sorry but it sounds like she likes having a boyfriend and also engaging in activities as if she was single. You can do better than this. I wish you luck.
Beautiful Inside Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 sorry to say but the signs are all there!
hurt4life Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Ok here's my dilema. I think my g/f may be cheating and this is what i know so for. 1) She has admitted to texting another guy and talking risque or sexy dirty talk. 2) She is very protective of her cell phone i have picked it up on occasions not to be nosey just to look and see waht kind it was. And she would litterally wrestle me for it so i couldnt see it. 3) She will somtimes send me sexy pics via cell phone. I have noticed when she sends them to me that sometimes in the subject line it says "none" but on some occasions it says "fwd". I have been cheated on before after a long marriage. So maybe i have trust issues. Ive dated other woman and never had this gut feeling as i have in the past bt with this one i do. She tells me love me. she tells me how great i am in bed etc etc So what do you think. Hey man, the signs are there. Don't be stupid like me, the signs were there for me also. I hope for your sake, she is not, but girls are very good at hiding things.......most of them, most of the time.
Author lassie Posted March 21, 2009 Author Posted March 21, 2009 Thanks for all your comments. I just needed some more opinions.I.ve seen the signs before and was just hoping i wasnt seeing them again. I told her the first part of the week that i had received a call in the wee hours of the morning and that it geatly concerned me of course she wonted to know what the number was i never told her. She has text me all week long i,ve not responded to any of them she knew somthing was up. Well she just got a text from my cell phone carrier that she had been blocked from texting my number. Think she'll get the message?
In Like Flynn Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Whats the old saying....Those that have nothing to hide....hide nothing. If she hides her phone, emails etc then you have your answer. The rest is a waste of energy.
samspade Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 No need to be a detective, right? Like everyone said, the signs are there. Look at it this way...even if she WEREN'T cheating, her behavior is not on par with what you deserve in a girlfriend. If she's going to even act like someone with something to hide, she's not worth keeping around.
FairyTale73 Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Ok here's my dilema. I think my g/f may be cheating and this is what i know so for. 1) She has admitted to texting another guy and talking risque or sexy dirty talk. 2) She is very protective of her cell phone i have picked it up on occasions not to be nosey just to look and see waht kind it was. And she would litterally wrestle me for it so i couldnt see it. 3) She will somtimes send me sexy pics via cell phone. I have noticed when she sends them to me that sometimes in the subject line it says "none" but on some occasions it says "fwd". I have been cheated on before after a long marriage. So maybe i have trust issues. Ive dated other woman and never had this gut feeling as i have in the past bt with this one i do. She tells me love me. she tells me how great i am in bed etc etc So what do you think. She tells you she loves you and is making love with you while talking sex talks to another guy : its low . She has no dignity .
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