soblue72 Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 My ex-fiance broke up with me after 3 years. He was on & off meds for bipolar and I went thru alot with him. Towards the end, I was tired and wanted it to end. In December, a friend talked me into signing up on a social site. I did, some of his friends saw me, and word got back to him. Since then, he started coming to my webpage. I didn't read any of the notes he left, until Valentine's Day when I missed him so much that I read one he sent that day. All it said was Happy Valentine's Day, that he knew I was doing me and that he was happy for me. I didn't respond but it tells you when your note is read. He found out the next day, clicked on my page and I haven't heard from him since. It's been a month now and I feel stupid for reading the note instead of deleting like the others. I look for him all the time on my page now and I don't want to live that way. I do like my page and don't really want to start all over with a new one. Any experience on this or advice as to what I should do?
Knight_Ctrl Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 Are you talking about a webpage that like, you created and own and stuff like a .com. Or your facebook or myspace. If facebook or myspace then my answer is hell yes. Its only going to cause you more pain, and really you can get along fine without it. I have.
Author soblue72 Posted March 20, 2009 Author Posted March 20, 2009 It's more like facebook and myspace. I've since blocked him but he hasn't tried since then and I feel like it's still causing me more harm than good. I have alot of well wishes on my page and it's great to go there sometimes and read them. That's why I really don't want to close it. Still, I don't want to keep looking for him to turn up so in the end I think it's best if I just close it.
Knight_Ctrl Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 For sure, I abstain from the sites entirely. I once and only once ever went out of my way to check my exs status on myspace and I discovered she was dating a friend of mine, imagine if I HAD myspace and saw pics. I'd probably die or something. Take care.
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