Mandapanda Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 I'm married, and for the most part... pretty happy. But, theres a part of me that can't let go of one person... Every time I hear a song, see a certain car, or even a joke I can't fight this person out of my mind. I catch myself wondering 'what if' all the time.... Is it normal? Does it mean I'd rather be with that person than my husband?!
AlwaysIndecisive Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 I belive that when we share time with a person that they are imprinted on us some how. How could you expect to NOT have memories of things that happened to you? Songs, cars, jokes... they all trigger memories. This is natural. I belive your underlying question is if you find yourself wondering 'what if' all the time... You don't need the song, car to serve as the gateway. You say it yourself in "But, theres a part of me that can't let go of one person..." Do you have any contact with him? Do you know what he is up to?
Author Mandapanda Posted March 21, 2009 Author Posted March 21, 2009 I only hear things about him through my mom (he lives close) I've been dreaming alot about him. but as far as direct contact... no.
wuggle Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Jeez, grow up. So you have some minor feelings for some other guy you used to know, perfectly normal, you dream about him occasionaly, so what. Would you rather be with him than your husband ?, if yes then leave your husband, if not, accept the fact that life is like that, commit to your husband and get on with life. There are no absolutes, everything is fuzzy, live with it
hopesndreams Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 I completely agree with wuggle on this, LOL. Devote all your attention on ur husband, quit ur daydreaming.
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