chels Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 he dumped me about 8 months ago, after dating 2.5 years. we were very close for a long time but it ended badly (lots of fighting, messy, etc) i was totally devastated. he was really angry and basically told me we shouldn't speak again. we have been NC since last july. i'm still not 100% over him but have accepted that i probably wouldn't hear from him ever again. a few weeks ago, i briefly bumped into one of his friends from high school, a girl who is married to another of my ex's friends from HS. she was with people so i just smiled and said "hi, how are you?" and walked on. she e-mailed me tonight and apologized for not being able to chat when we ran into each other. she asked how i was and said we should get coffee sometime. am i wrong to be totally weirded out by this? i wasn't close with her while i was dating my ex. we all hung out in a group a handful of times. maybe she was just trying to be nice? am i overanalyzing? should i respond and what should i say?
talkdate Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 well, there might be several reason behind such activity that has been done after a long time. Online Dating
AMM003 Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 Hell yeah, I would take that opportunity. But absolutely do not talk about him. That would be the worst thing you could do. Of course it will filter back to him. I think you should say, "I have been working on the cure for cancer, and when I am not doing that, I am giving out blankets to homeless." All jokes aside, talk about yourself and the good things in your life. Just to let him know youre doing just fine without him.
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