yoder44 Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 ok... I like this girl and she likes me... But when we were talking one day she seemed really into me. So later that day i asked her out. And she said she just wasnt ready to date. And the reason was cause she said that she wasn't ready for holding hands and stuff like that. So i told her that i wanted to wait for that stuff and that, that stuff comes in time. But she still wants to wait a little longer... What should i do? Wait longer and give her time or what?
samspade Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 Ask someone else out. Just because she wants to wait doesn't mean you have to (unless you want to).
Mahatma Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 Find a different girl. From my recent high school experience: If a girl tells you "she is not ready to date," it means "no I do not want to date you."
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 I fully agree with the two before me. In HS if I were to tell a guy I wasn't ready to date, it would mean I wasn't ready to date HIM....like...ever. Find a new girl.
Lindarose84 Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 I agree with everyone. If I were interested in a guy the last thing I'm telling him is that I'm not ready to "hold hands". I'd want to be doing a lot of holding and not just hands. I think that's just her nice way of telling you she's just not that into you especially since going on a date doesn't necessarily mean hand holding. She's making excuses. Find another girl who will reciprocate your feelings. Good luck!
Trialbyfire Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 How old are the two of you? The reason I'm asking is that some girls come from very sheltered families, who aren't allowed to date previous to a certain age.
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