imbafl Posted October 10, 2003 Posted October 10, 2003 My boyfriend and I have been together for nine months now. He has been divorced twice, both times his wifes left him. He seems to have a problem with communication and sharing emotions etc. I'm just the opposite, I want to communicate, I want to discuss things that bother me or that I feel are a problem in our relationship. When I do this I am being told that I want drama, argue, etc. This generally leads to hurt feelings, tears etc on my part which makes him even madder. Any suggestions? Do I compromise what I feel a relationship should be? I love this man immensely, more than anyone that I have ever had in my life. FYI. I was married for 17 years and was never happy, nor was I truly in love with him. Help.
moimeme Posted October 10, 2003 Posted October 10, 2003 If you are not in sync about the importance of communication, you'll not do well together. You could try seeing a counsellor with him - if he'll agree. If not, I doubt there's much you can do.
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