vh5150 Posted October 10, 2003 Posted October 10, 2003 Help with a girlfriend with fear of abandonment issues ,Help! Post: 1 | Quote: I am trying to reconcile with a girl who has had a very difficult childhood. I've been with her for about a year. Here are some facts: - She is 25 years old and very intelligent, and uncommonly beautiful - Her dad divorced her mother when she was ten (Both successful attorneys) - Her dad has abandoned her, he will not talk to her but will talk to her sister - Her 58 year old Dad has a twenty-something girlfriend who encourages the dad not to talk to her - The dad says she reminds him too much of her mother so that is why he abandoned her - Has never been able to express her feelings to me in any way - Never has said, "I feel this way" or "I feel that way" - I have not talked to her in three weeks - She runs away from conflict, very passive aggresive, cannot talk about relationship issues at all - We have never been intimate, but she will not talk about it She has not returned my calls because I told her that I don't feel close to her. I also told her that I was not happy because I don't know where I stand. I didn't want to part ways with her, but I think she really is mad at me now. It is probably time to move on but I really care for her. A very strange situation indeed. Anybody dealt with anything like this? Thanks
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 11, 2003 Posted October 11, 2003 Its time to move on,it sounds like shes not interested in you.
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