Author samprez Posted March 31, 2009 Author Posted March 31, 2009 Ok...great night!!! Told wife about contact. Also told her my friend knows about the situation. She was upset but was really happy I leveled with her. She said she could tell all day I was upset at work and was pushing me to tell her on the phone but was glad I waited until we were together. Friend is ignoring and unfriending MW. He has my back. I think a signal is going to be sent to her about what's going on. Thoughts?
bentnotbroken Posted March 31, 2009 Posted March 31, 2009 Telling your wife was a huge step in rebuilding trust in your new relationship. Looks like the OW's fishing had an unexpected benefit. Bet she didn't count on that when she dropped her bait in the water.
Author samprez Posted April 1, 2009 Author Posted April 1, 2009 Sent the email. Unemotional email explaining she needs to distance herself from my circle; now. Said I love my wife and that I wasted time and energy on her, need to focus on my family. Showed the wife and she was pleased. Got a very angry response from MW. Didn't expect her to respond. After I told her NC she responded and said, don't contact ME. Hilarious. Whew....so f'ing glad I did this.
whichwayisup Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 Good. Now do yourself and your wife a big favour... BLOCK exMW's email address so even if she writes you again, you won't hear from her. Block/put her on ignore on facebook as well.
blueintheface Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 congrats samprez! now to work on your indifference ... xD
jj33 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Congratulations Samprez. I wish you a lot of luck going forward.
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