nelib Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 My situation is eerily similar to yours girl! My bf lives about an hour and a half away and we too only see each other on weekends! Long distance is really tough, I feel like sometimes it takes more time for these strong feelings to really develop, not to mention be acknowledged, when youre in a long distance relationship. That being said, there is absolutely nothing you can do about it... Well, what I really mean to say is that there is nothing you SHOULD do about it. I know thats not what you want to hear (er, read?) But, He knows how you feel. And when the time is right for him, he'll say it. You cant rush someone into something like this. After all, wouldnt you want those words to come from within him and be genuine than for him to say it out of feelings of pressure, or worse, pity? Im sure the time will come. Some people take a lot longer to bring their wall down. I mean telling someone that youre in love with them, in my opinion, is one of the MOST vulnerable moves one can make in a relationship. Some people are just too scared, jaded, or just plain not ready. It took us 6 months to say it, if it makes you feel any better Gosh! I really really hope he will finally say it....I am really in love this time. I have been in love once before...a very long time ago and it feels like that again. We are perfect for each other. When I initially said it...he texted me and told me that he doesn't think that he is "ready to use that word but soon though" WHAT? SIGHS....Okay...I will wait patiently. I am sure when it does happen...if it does happen....it will be well worth the wait. Thanks for the response.
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