wooha Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 After 2 months of NC, she called me a few times. Suggested lunch, etc. Nice sometimes, herself other times. I ran into her at a local restaurant and she gave big hugs, told me she missed me, wished I could come home with her, we made out, cried-everything. She proceded to tell me she quit hangin in the bars, slowed the drinking, and was an avid churchgoer now. Before we parted company I asked her what she was gonna do that night. She said "I'm gonna go home". Haha, she went out till 4am I found out-drunk. When I confronted her she went ape. Told me thats why she does'nt talk to me anymore. I'm the one who cut contact after she broke it off, slept with someone, and kept jacking me around. I did not contact her(2 months), she called me. Also, when I asked her what it was she wanted from me, she said "I hope we can get back together one of these days" but wants to be single for now-F*CK OFF I say. I texted her today and told her if she could'nt talk without lying, or answer questions without being shady I'd prefer not to talk to her. She told me to leave her alone-I HAVE BEEN, she called me! What the hell?
chrissreef Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 people are crazy... maybe just look at it as entertainment and never deal with her again and move on?
D-Lish Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 She probably lied to appear as if everything is going according to plan for her. It's difficult to admit you're not doing as well as you should be. I'm sure her anger at your confrontation was really just about being caught lying. She's not done with her partying ways- so she obviously isn't gf material right now. But she cheated??? I'd try and make a concerted effort to forget about her altogether. How would you ever trust her again after both the cheating, and the lying about pulling her life together.
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