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sry bout caps....

First of all..Ive never dated or been with a girl....So Yeah i like dis girl...Still do for sum reason, Shes really nice(christian).Long story short ...i my spaced her and she told me that "idk how u can like me, we barely know each other" "wut u said is sweet""I'm just looking for friends now because there's too much pain jumping from relationship to relationship". and she gave me her number if i wanted to text her ..which i did once and we have a nice little conversation. but i Barely talk to her Because i don't want her to think i still like her........and i do, i really don't know why. I don't have any classes with her..I see her like twice a day in the halls.(Im In High school) Okay when i see her in the halls sometimes i act like i didn't Notice her. and if we do Make eye contact i freeze because i really don't know what to do...Today like we made eye contact ... i didn't know what to do but all she did was raise her eye brows and showed me her teeth.....But the thing is i approached her twice after that message on myspace and i started talking to her and shes smiles and laughs and talks back to me......Yeah i barely know her though only talked to her 3 times ...including the 2 after the myspace page...yeah i no "WtHEck am i doing!!!!!"...And if i cant be the right guy for her.. i wanna be her friend...a really good friend.. cuz shes lonely, If u look at her shes gorgeous and u would think she has many friends. And she does but there just friends.... No best friend... And i think she gave up on looking for really good friends.....because her family moves a lot and if its painful for her to jump from relationship to relationship...then i believe painful for her to lose good friends...I'm a senior in High school and in 9 weeks i graduate....i probably will not see her ever again. and i really don't want that to happen. So please Tell me what to do! I really don't know What to talk about with her....I wanna see her laugh,i wanna make her laugh.....

 

Yeah This message does sound creepy even i admit....But it came from the heart..

 

OH and she is not Jehovah's witness... Plz don't tell me to Next her...I just Can't.....

 

Thank you:(

 

A lil 1 on 1 help would be great! please help ty

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She said that she wants nothing more than friends. You have to respect her decision.

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YEah...but we barely knew each other....if we get to know each other....idk.....

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YEah...but we barely knew each other....if we get to know each other....idk.....

 

 

Get to know her more. Hangout and talk to her casually. See what happens in a few weeks and take it from there. No rush man

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Get to know her more. Hangout and talk to her casually. See what happens in a few weeks and take it from there. No rush man

Yeah im tryin but i need help with wut to talk about and making her laaugh to

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Yeah im tryin but i need help with wut to talk about and making her laaugh to

 

 

Just be yourself. Have fun and dont worry about the outcome. Just talk about school and have the conversation lead to to other things..weather, what shes doing this weekend ect.

 

Playfully flirt with her to see how she responds. Make fun of her in a funny way. Smile around her.

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Just be yourself. Have fun and dont worry about the outcome. Just talk about school and have the conversation lead to to other things..weather, what shes doing this weekend ect.

 

Playfully flirt with her to see how she responds. Make fun of her in a funny way. Smile around her.

 

K when u say make fun of her?gimme an example...?I can tell u she is grounded, and idk wut to say bout school..she has 1st period pottery and 2nd period psychology thats all i know

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K when u say make fun of her?gimme an example...?I can tell u she is grounded, and idk wut to say bout school..she has 1st period pottery and 2nd period psychology thats all i know

 

 

Say she said something about spilling a drink on her....say something like wow good going...stain looks great on you! Saying this with a little smile. Playful games with her. Might not be a good example. Smile. Make eye contact. Stand strait. Be confident in everything you are doing even though it will be tough. I am trying to be more confident as i speak with girls and just life in general. Not cocky..just confident.

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