lonelyinluv Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 ok.. so my boyfriend always looks at porn on the internet.. is this sumthin i should worry about?? if so what can i as his "Girlfriend" take that interest away?
clv0116 Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 ok.. so my boyfriend always looks at porn on the internet.. is this sumthin i should worry about?? if so what can i as his "Girlfriend" take that interest away? Well if you enjoy porn then you can try watching it together. If not, maybe you're not compatible.
Enema Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 Unless him looking at porn is harming your sex life, get over it. It's not something to worry about and doesn't mean anything about you/your relationship.
Lizzie60 Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 ok.. so my boyfriend always looks at porn on the internet.. is this sumthin i should worry about?? if so what can i as his "Girlfriend" take that interest away? I bet you can.. if you're willing to be his porn star.. Seriously, I don't think you need to worry about it.. unless he rather watch porn than go to work. or make love to you.. If it doesn't damage your love life.. then leave him alone with his porn..
Cal999 Posted March 21, 2009 Posted March 21, 2009 Why would this be acceptable to any woman??? If I was a woman - I'd be truly bummed. Why would a guy want porn over a woman??? If he has a girlfriend/wife??? Maybe he just likes watching & teasing himself Tell him to STOP immediately. It's like some people think oral sex is not sex - boyfriend watching porn is like cheating I think because it's unfair to the partner. "what can i as his "Girlfriend" take that interest away?" Again even if you fulfill all his sexual desires he could still be turned on by porn
somedude81 Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 Why would this be acceptable to any woman??? If I was a woman - I'd be truly bummed. Why would a guy want porn over a woman??? If he has a girlfriend/wife??? Maybe he just likes watching & teasing himself Tell him to STOP immediately. It's like some people think oral sex is not sex - boyfriend watching porn is like cheating I think because it's unfair to the partner. "what can i as his "Girlfriend" take that interest away?" Again even if you fulfill all his sexual desires he could still be turned on by porn Ugh, you don't have a clue. Why the hell should he stop? How the hell is watching porn cheating? You and the thread author should read and re-read Enema's post Unless him looking at porn is harming your sex life, get over it. It's not something to worry about and doesn't mean anything about you/your relationship. Heck this one is good too I bet you can.. if you're willing to be his porn star.. Seriously, I don't think you need to worry about it.. unless he rather watch porn than go to work. or make love to you.. If it doesn't damage your love life.. then leave him alone with his porn.. Just because you're a prude doesn't give you any right to control somebody else's actions.
hopesndreams Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 Do you feel disrespected that your bf is consuming porn on a regular basis? If you do, tell him. Is there anything you can do to curb his interest in porn? No, not really, it can be someone's addiction and you would have no control over it, they have to want to stop doing it for them to stop doing it.
hopesndreams Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 Just because you're a prude doesn't give you any right to control somebody else's actions. Women that don't like their man gobbling up porn are not prudes. I, personally, would have nothing to do with a man or get involved with a man that engages in this type of behaviour. I believe it hurts both men and women psychologically.
PinkKittyKat Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Just because you're a prude doesn't give you any right to control somebody else's actions. Women that don't like their man gobbling up porn are not prudes. I, personally, would have nothing to do with a man or get involved with a man that engages in this type of behaviour. I believe it hurts both men and women psychologically. THIS ^^^ All my exes save one were opposed to porn. I used to be really into porn, as did my current bf. All of a sudden I wasn't into it anymore. He didn't like me watching it, I didn't like him watching it. After a few fights, discussions, etc. we realized how damaging it was and decided to delete EVERYTHING(save some drawings/cartoons) and our sex life is better than it has ever been with anyone.
chrissylee Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 ok.. so my boyfriend always looks at porn on the internet.. is this sumthin i should worry about?? if so what can i as his "Girlfriend" take that interest away? Does he know how you feel about porn? Although I don't think there is really anything you can do to stop him from looking at porn. My advice would be to find someone who feels the same way about porn as you.
chrissylee Posted March 25, 2009 Posted March 25, 2009 Just because you're a prude doesn't give you any right to control somebody else's actions. I hate porn and I don't consider myself a prude. Watching other people have sex really does nothing for me. I would rather be having sex with my boyfriend. Its much more fun that way.
EnigmasMuse Posted March 26, 2009 Posted March 26, 2009 I say leave him too it....and then go find you someone that shares your same views on the issue. I have a feeling that, that no matter how much you beg, plead and cry about it, he will more than likely continue to do it, why put yourself through that. Good luck!
mental_traveller Posted March 29, 2009 Posted March 29, 2009 ok.. so my boyfriend always looks at porn on the internet.. is this sumthin i should worry about?? if so what can i as his "Girlfriend" take that interest away? 1. Have a hot and wild sex life where you discuss everything with total openness. 2. Stop thinking you should try to "take that interest away". If you don't feel you can do both of those, you are probably with the wrong guy and should find someone with values closer to your own.
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