Trialbyfire Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 If you hate to hurt women, why are you cheating on your wife and also, cheating on the three OWs? You remind me of someone who has an existing username(s) on LS.
Meaplus3 Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 Meaplus3.....what is MM? I love the others cause they love me for who I am and they love what I do in bed, my sweetness I guess. Being tied down for years I guess I obviously liking the freedom. I don't like the bitchy, controlling unfreindly things my wife does. She admitted she's been a bad wife. But its to late can't stand her anymore. MM stands for Married Man. In bed? You mean your sleeping with all 3? Oh my . Really this is more of a mess than I thought. You have a wife and this is an awful thing to do behind her back. Mea. I am confused. I am tryin to wait til summer when kids r out of school. I not worldly at all. Lived a very sheltered life. I love being w/ and pleasing women. But hate hurting them.[/quote] OK. Now I am now confused. You hate hurting them yet your sleeping with all 3 and you have a wife? Really.. someone is going to get very hurt here..so your going against what you believe if you say you hate hurting them. First and foremost, figure out the marriage. Set your wife free if you must. Gosh, she does not deserve any of this. Mea:)
Lippy2 Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 So, you wouldn't really call it dating? However, you are sleeping with all of them including your wife. You need to step back and take a long hard look at your life ALONE for awhile. Seriously, that's what has to happen. Your concerned about your kids, is this how you want your kids to view you. A man who is out running around sleeping with different women and hurting there mother. You don't think that will effect them??? Do these women know you are married and living and sleeping with your wife?
Author reallygreatguy Posted March 17, 2009 Author Posted March 17, 2009 I don't have sex w/ wife. We hardly ever have. I've only slept w/2 and the other one only I only c a few times a year. I will let the wife go and decide what I want to do. I know it looks bad to the kids. I may have some issues myself.
Meaplus3 Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 I don't have sex w/ wife. We hardly ever have. I've only slept w/2 and the other one only I only c a few times a year. I will let the wife go and decide what I want to do. I know it looks bad to the kids. I may have some issues myself. It might not hurt for you to dig deep and see if their is something inside yourself that's missing. It takes two to make a marriage work, so I highly doubt it's all your w's fault that the two of you have not been having sex. For now, you should think long and hard about how you will destroy the lives of these other woman. Let that rest and make a decesion about your marriage. You will also need to deal with your kids emotions through all this. The children will be affected and it's very important to try deal with that in the most effective way to minimize the pain that they will suffer. I wish you the best. Mea:)
Lippy2 Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 I don't have sex w/ wife. We hardly ever have. I've only slept w/2 and the other one only I only c a few times a year. I will let the wife go and decide what I want to do. I know it looks bad to the kids. I may have some issues myself. Do these women KNOW you are married and living with your wife??? Have you been truthful with them?
Author reallygreatguy Posted March 17, 2009 Author Posted March 17, 2009 Mea and everyone else. Thx I really appreciate all the help. I obviously in my own little world and don't think about the consequenses. Just have been tryin to please the wife for so long and got no where. So I wanna / need to get my head on straight and think abt my kids.
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