Author justme2781 Posted March 18, 2009 Author Posted March 18, 2009 no his ex wifes new bf and her go on vacay
D-Lish Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 no his ex wifes new bf and her go on vacay Still not clear- The ex wife, her boyfriend, and your current man all go on vacation with the kids together? If that's the case, it says he is dedicated to keeping things cool for the kids. It also says he is over the romance with his wife. The only way I'd go away with my ex husband and his new woman would be if I was totally okay with the break up. So your 28 and he's 45? I dunno- the age difference in itself isn't at all alarming or strange. Not to me anyway. If he is on the cusp of finalizing the divorce, and his wife has happily moved on- and the three of them are vacationing together with the kids... It seems clear he's pretty cool about the situation. The only thing I'd be a bit leery of is whether or not he is ready to get involved in a serious relationship. Sometimes it takes time to want to settle down again, and sometimes it doesn't. Depends on the individual. I'd just go with the flow, look after yourself and your needs and see what happens. Just don't invest too heavily until you get a really good read on what he is a) looking for b) ready for.
Author justme2781 Posted March 18, 2009 Author Posted March 18, 2009 d-lish i agree, he doesnt go on teh vacays though . .i am not sure how cool his ex and him are. i am not sure if she was dating the other guy before her husband move so i am not totally sure about that whole situation. it is best to go slow though.
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