Football988 Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I've been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now and she's the first girlfriend I've ever had as well as the first and only person I've had sex with. I found out about her previous boyfriends and found out she had sex with one of them. Im a freshman in college now I am having a lot of trouble getting over her past. I think it could be because I've never been with anyone but her before. I really want to be with her but dont know what to do and if I would regret telling her that I need to see other people.
chrissreef Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 What does her past have anything to do with you wanting to see other people? everyone has a past, good or bad. You just have to forgive and appreciate she's with you right now. I will also say that almost every girl you meet from now on will have a past they did "something" with, sex or not. My ex had 15, her best friend is in the 30's. I'm at like 13... and I'm not proud of it. Just don't think about it and focus on you two. Good luck!
Citizen Erased Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 It's only one person, not 50. If you have such a problem, only date virgins.
Konfuzion Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 Its her past and has nothing to do with the two of you.... I think I may be a sex addict I have been with somewhere in the range of 70-80 women... I think.
sedgwick Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 Who she was with in the past has nothing to do with you! You're an adult now and have to learn to deal with the fact that people will have had relationships before you. Why would the fact that she had a boyfriend before you make you want to see other people? Do you want to go out and try to find only virgins to date?
Excellent Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 I don't get it. Past is past. Did you expect her to not have a love-life before she met you? Or does this bother you because she just recently told you about it, and said otherwise before?
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